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Online or in-person psychotherapy scheduling: WhatsApp 11 99787-4512 http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/hor... In-person service: Rua Bela Cintra, 968 (near Av Paulista - Consolação Metro and Paulista Metro) Subscribe to this channel http://goo.gl/32B3B6 Become a member of the channel club:    / psicólogos em são paulo   Free E-books http://www.marisapsicologa.com.br/mat... E-books already published OCD Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Personality Disorders. Depression. Psychological treatments. Anxiety. Panic. ADHD Attention deficit. Hypochondria. Schizophrenia. Anorexia. Obesity. Agoraphobia. Treatment for alcoholism. Self-esteem. Childhood anxiety. Shyness. Bournot. Premature ejaculation. Overcoming the pain of separation. How to maintain sanity during quarantine. Insomnia. Abandonment neurosis. Borderline. Join the group on Telegram: https://t.me/PsicologosemSP Marisa de Abreu Psychologist CRP 06/29493 _________________________________________ The person is wrong, but they can turn the situation around to make you look like the guilty party in the story I'll tell you a story that someone told me to illustrate: The person did something wrong and told it as if it were something funny, they were bragging about what they did, as if taking advantage of someone less experienced was a sign of cleverness, you simply looked at them and said "Ok, but someone was harmed in this story, and that wasn't cool." The person shrugs. After a while, this story comes up again, but the person retells the story as a passive observer and not as a participant, and at that moment you realize that the person understood that it was wrong, so much so that he wanted to say that he was not the author of what happened. But you reinforce your position: “Even though you did not participate, being a witness and being in a position that allowed you to try to stop it, you should have spoken up and not remained silent, giving the impression of support.” At that moment, the person changes the story again and says that he was not sure of what was happening, which is why he did not speak out. And you say, “You did not tell me the story in this way initially, you changed it when you realized that you had a compromising role.” At that moment, the person becomes extremely offended, saying that you are calling him dishonest, a thief, that you do not even trust him to have access to your assets, and that is why he will block you and never speak to you again, but first he will tell all your mutual friends “who you are” and what you were capable of doing to tarnish his image. In the end, he tarnished your image in front of a group, you start to distrust yourself, you start to think that you exaggerated your analysis of the situation. This is the description of what a manipulator can do. The worst thing you can do to yourself is to feel guilty for things that someone else did. This type of behavior is possible in any environment. I have seen companies that practice unfair behavior with customers and make employees feel guilty for not pleasing customers. Just yesterday I was in a store where the job field on the employee's badge was written "Customer Charmer". I could only imagine how many hours those employees have to stand and how much they have to smile on their faces. They are friends who ask to borrow objects and if you prefer not to lend them, because it is your choice and not your obligation, they make you feel very bad, considering yourself a person who does not deserve their friendship. They are manipulators, they can even cry, and they retell stories in their own way, playing the victim, blaming other people. Being clear about these situations keeps your mental health and self-image as it should be. #manipulator