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You're Not Broken. You're Changed. | Shame, Resilience, and Post-Traumatic Growth | S2E2

What if the toughest thing a warrior can do is ask for help? In Episode 2 of Season 2, we sit down with Dr. Ben Iobst: Army Infantry veteran, combat veteran of Operation Iraqi Freedom, 16-year police officer in Allentown, hostage negotiator, crisis intervention specialist, psychology educator at Northampton Community College, and founder of BTI Consulting Services. Ben doesn't just study this stuff. He's lived it and nearly lost everything in the process. This conversation goes places most veteran content won't. Ben shares his full story: watching friends die in combat, coming home numb, sliding into alcohol dependency without realizing it, emotional disconnection from everyone he loved, and the moment the walls finally closed in all at once. And then what came after: therapy, recovery, a doctorate, and a mission to make sure no one has to figure it out alone. We also go deep on the frameworks he uses every day: the difference between grit and resilience, the Wellness Triangle for Post-Traumatic Growth, compassionate accountability, chronic uniqueness, and why shame, not fear, is the real silencer in our community. If you're a veteran quietly struggling, a first responder running on fumes, or someone who loves one of them and doesn't know what to say, this episode is for you. 🔗 Stay Connected with Dr. Ben Iobst BTI Consulting Services: https://bticonsultingservice.com/torw Lehigh Valley Law Enforcement Emergency Services Officers Wellness Group (LVLELES): available via BTI site above 👉 Follow Prize Prize Website: https://www.prize.vet Subscribe on YouTube:    / @prizevet   Follow on Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show... Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... IG:   / prize.vet   Facebook:   / prizevet   TikTok:   / prizevet   X: https://x.com/prizevet/ LinkedIn:   / prizevet   📚 Books & Resources Mentioned 📖 Struggle Well by Josh Goldberg and Ken Falke: https://a.co/d/0iRPbrd6 🧠 Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG): https://ptgi.charlotte.edu 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: https://www.apa.org/ptsd-guideline/tr... 🤝 Veterans Crisis Line: https://www.veteranscrisisline.net 🤝 FOP Wellness Programs: https://www.fop.net 🤝 IAFF Wellness: https://www.iaff.org/behavioral-health 💬 Quotes Attempted to Be Quoted "We become the average of the five people we spend the most time with." — Jim Rohn 🎧 Who This Episode Is For Veterans quietly struggling after service First responders navigating trauma, burnout, or transition Spouses and partners of transitioning veterans Leaders and employers who want to show up better for their people -- 00:00 Righteous Anger & the Shame Spiral (Cold Open) 01:07 Meet Dr. Ben: Combat Vet, Cop, and Wellness Advocate 02:26 Stop Going Solo: Ask for Backup, Beat Shame 05:23 How to Start the Talk: ‘How Are You Really?’ + Gratitude 07:11 9/11 to Infantry: The Decision to Serve 11:04 Iraq Reality Check: From Conventional War to Insurgency 12:49 Loss, Numbness, and the ‘What Are We Doing?’ Moment 16:43 Coming Home to Policing: A Different Kind of Rules of Engagement 21:45 Alcohol, Disconnection, and Hitting Rock Bottom 27:31 Chronic Uniqueness: The Trap That Keeps You Stuck 29:49 Building Peer Wellness & Post-Traumatic Growth Programs 33:15 Warning Signs + 3 Small Steps to Break the Cycle 39:57 Grit vs Resilience: Taking a Knee to Recharge 41:28 Operational Check-Ins: Taking Inventory Before You Burn Out 42:03 When Grit Helps vs. Hurts (Fitness & Relationships) 43:13 Resilience as Listening, Learning, and Seeking Healthy Role Models 44:13 Redefining Toughness: Vulnerability, Disclosure, and Better Leadership 45:40 The Warrior Wellness Triangle Explained (Mind, Body, Social/Financial, Purpose) 49:34 Why Structure Disappears After Transition and How Habits Rebuild Purpose 52:46 Action Steps: One Small Habit for Each Corner of the Triangle 56:54 Compassionate Accountability: Support Without Enabling 01:01:26 Unhealthy Tribes, Role Modeling, and a Powerful Turnaround Story 01:04:17 Transition Advice: Avoid Isolation & Find (or Build) Your Community 01:07:36 Relationships in Transition: Communication, Counseling, and Sharing the Wins 01:10:53 Final Takeaways + Resources, Favorites, Daily Non-Negotiables, and Closing -- 🚀 Help Us Grow 🔔 Subscribe to the Prize Podcast! 💬 Drop a comment with your biggest takeaway, a question for Dr. Ben, or a guest you'd like to see on the show. 📲 Visit https://prize.vet to learn more about Prize — built to support veterans through every step of transition. You're not alone on this journey. #militarytransition #veterans #prizepodcast #masteringthemilitarytransition #mentalhealth #veteranmentalhealth #ptsd #posttraumaticgrowth #shame #resilience #firstresponders #recovery #veteranstories