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You're Not Going Back | This is How You Change

Maybe you just moved to Charleston with big dreams, but things got harder than expected. Or perhaps you've been here a while, but keep finding yourself pulled back to old patterns, old relationships, or old versions of yourself you thought you'd left behind. You're not broken. You're human. At Courageous Church, we believe this year can be different—not because of willpower or positive thinking, but because real transformation happens when you stop fighting alone and start moving forward with purpose. In this message, Pastor Dave unpacks why we sabotage our own progress and how to finally break free. Whether you've never set foot in a church, walked away years ago, or are just exploring what faith might look like, this is for you. No religious jargon. Just honest conversation about the internal battles we all face. Your brain is wired to choose the familiar over the better. Even when something is painful, if it's predictable, you'll gravitate back to it. That relationship that wasn't healthy. That job you know isn't right. That city you left for good reasons. The pull is real, and it's not weakness—it's neuroscience. But here's the truth: you weren't meant to just survive. You were meant to move forward. The past can teach you, but it doesn't get to define you. And the difference between staying stuck and seeing breakthrough often comes down to one decision: refusing to go back. This isn't about religion. It's about you becoming who you were always meant to be. And sometimes, that requires letting go of the need to understand everything, releasing the shame that whispers you're not enough, and spending time with the One calling you toward something better. If you're tired of spinning your wheels, if you're ready to stop living in the rearview mirror, or if you're simply curious about what a church community looks like that actually gets the struggle—we'd love to meet you. 8 KEY POINTS WITH TIMESTAMPS: [0:14] The Power of Making Room for God What if church wasn't about going through motions, but actually encountering something real? Creating space changes everything. [4:23] When Your Past Defines Your Future Why we stop dreaming like kids and start settling for "good enough"—and how to break that cycle. [11:22] The Dangerous Pull Backward The moment you decide to change, your brain will beg you to go back. Understanding this saves you from self-sabotage. [14:54] Your Brain's Dirty Trick: Rosy Retrospection Why everything looks better in the rearview mirror—and how your mind literally rewrites memories to keep you stuck. [20:29] The Past Matters, But You Can't Live There Learning the difference between processing your history and being imprisoned by it. [28:05] Let Go of Needing All the Answers Now Some questions won't be answered this side of heaven—and that's okay. Forward movement requires faith, not certainty. [30:02] Guilt vs. Shame: Know the Difference You've done wrong things, but you're not a wrong thing. This distinction will set you free. [32:45] Spend Time With Who's Calling You Forward Real change doesn't come from trying harder. It comes from connection with something (Someone) greater. NEXT STEPS: Join us next Sunday as we launch a 5-week series on prayer—not religious repetition, but real conversation with God. We'll give you practical tools to connect with the One who sees your future more clearly than you see your past. New to Charleston? Never been to church? Walked away years ago? You belong here. --- Courageous Church is in Charleston, South Carolina. We are here to help you experience a life-changing relationship with Jesus. Learn more: ⮕ https://www.courageouscharleston.com/ Plan a Visit to Courageous Church: https://www.courageouscharleston.com/... Give to Courageous Church: https://www.courageouscharleston.com/...