E 3 十诫诗·【四】仓央嘉措Ten Maxims Part four by Tsangyang Gyatso скачать в хорошем качестве

E 3 十诫诗·【四】仓央嘉措Ten Maxims Part four by Tsangyang Gyatso

3.十诫诗·【四】仓央嘉措("Ten Maxims - Part four" by Tsangyang Gyatso) 第十最好不相遇，如此便可不相聚。 但曾相见便相知，相见何如不见时。 安得与君相诀绝，免教生死作相思。 Ten Sincere Poems - 4: The tenth best is not to meet at all, so there will be no reunion. But if we have met, we will know each other. What’s the point of meeting if it’s like not meeting at all? How can we part ways and avoid the pain of longing for each other in life and death? Poetry Analysis： This poem portrays a painful and melancholic love, depicting the thoughts and sorrows of a pair of lovers who are deeply entangled in love. The complex psychological changes make this true and melancholic love even more heart-wrenching. Despite loving deeply, the pain of forcing oneself to cut off the relationship is extreme. The ultimate indifference and almost ruthless attitude, with the preservation of dignity and respect for love… all are vividly portrayed in this poem. The simple words carry a powerful and heart-wrenching force. “The best is not to meet at all, so there will be no love. The second best is not to know each other, so there will be no yearning. The third best is not to accompany each other, so there will be no debt.” If there is no meeting, how can one fall into a love that cannot be extricated? The rational and sober language carries the suppressed pain of separation from the lover, even rejecting the joy brought by the encounter. This deep love and the confusion that cannot be extricated further highlight the firmness of love like a rock that cannot be shaken. “The second best is not to know each other, so there will be no yearning.” Love is a spiritual communication. Only after knowing each other can one know each other well. When the soul overlaps and coincides, the love brought by the tacit understanding of heart-to-heart will be warm and intimate. The lover will be thought of over and over again, and the love will be relived over and over again in the heart. Once this silly longing is lost, it is like losing a support. Therefore, regret knowing each other, regret loving deeply, only because the pain after losing the loved one is unbearable. This poem portrays a painful and melancholic love, depicting the thoughts and sorrows of a pair of lovers who are deeply entangled in love. The complex psychological changes make this true and melancholic love even more heart-wrenching. Despite loving deeply, the pain of forcing oneself to cut off the relationship is extreme. The ultimate indifference and almost ruthless attitude, with the preservation of dignity and respect for love… all are vividly portrayed in this poem. The simple words carry a powerful and heart-wrenching force. “The best is not to accompany each other, so there will be no debt.” Holding hands, the love given by those silent companions is enough to nourish the soul and make us appreciate its generosity. However, once separated, the warmth in the heart cannot compensate for the loss brought about, enough to make people heartbroken and tearful. Those warm companionship owed, after separation, can never be repaid. Hating the impermanence of life, one can only secretly grieve. “The best is not to cherish each other, so there will be no memories.” The traces left by that period of cherishment and affection cannot be erased, because love is so deep and intoxicating that after separation, only the memories of the deceased remain. In the process of reliving the memories over and over again, the wound is torn open again and again, making it impossible to heal. This kind of pain that tears the wound apart every time makes people regretful and truly cherish it. “The best is not to fall in love, so there will be no parting.” If there is no love, there will be no disappointment and betrayal. This naive assumption and inquiry, repeated over and over again, is actually reminding oneself of the fact of separation. If there is no love, there will be no such pain. However, fearing the pain and refusing to love is even more painful. Being forced to separate from a lover, repeating the hypothesis of “if not” over and over again, seems to regret the past love, but actually reveals one’s deep love for that person. If it were not for loving deeply, how could there be such pain? If it were not for being crazy in love, how could there be such hatred for the impermanence of life? Especially the last sentence shows a soft side, reflecting the love between parents and children. The indifference and determination in front are just disguises used to bind oneself because of too much love. The words “how can I forget you” spoken at last reveal the sadness and long-lasting nature of the poem. The faint pain flows from the words that can be seen, and the sourness and bitterness are born naturally in the heart.