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Ep#7 When the Family Hurts: How to Heal Pain and Rebuild Connection

Family pain cuts deeper than almost anything else. When distance, anger, or misunderstanding shows up between parents, children, or grandparents, it can feel overwhelming and sometimes beyond repair. In this episode, we sit down with relationship coach Tony Vear to explore why family hurt feels so intense and what it actually takes to begin healing it. Through personal stories and lived experience, Tony explains how listening—really listening—can shift even the most painful family dynamics. He challenges the idea that healing means fixing or forcing resolution, and instead invites families to focus on presence, responsibility, patience, and love in action. The conversation explores unmet expectations, childhood wounds, forgiveness, emotional intelligence, and why boundaries matter when rebuilding trust. This episode isn't about blame or quick fixes. It's about understanding where pain comes from, how it gets passed down, and how small, intentional shifts can open the door to reconnection. Key Takeaways • Deep listening can be more healing than explaining or defending • Family pain often comes from unmet expectations that were never spoken • Love is shown through consistent actions, not just words • Healing begins by taking responsibility for your role—without taking all the blame • Forgiveness is a process that frees the person who chooses it Guest Bio Tony Vear is an author, relationship coach, program creator, and workshop leader with over 30 years of experience in relationships, communication, and personal development. Through his work and the founding of the Relationship Mastery Institute, he helps individuals and families understand love, heal breakdowns, and build more meaningful, lasting connections. Learn more about his work:   / therminstitute   Chapters 00:00 — Welcome to The Power of Family 02:10 — Why Family Pain Runs So Deep 05:05 — Meet Tony Vear: Why He Chose Relationships 09:20 — Listening Instead of Fixing Family Pain 13:45 — When Adult Children Express Anger 18:30 — Love Is Shown Through Action, Not Words 22:40 — Expectations: The Hidden Source of Family Hurt 27:15 — The Five Love Languages in Families 31:20 — Childhood Stories That Shape Adult Relationships 36:10 — The Platinum Rule vs. The Golden Rule 40:05 — When Families Avoid the Pain 44:05 — Taking Responsibility Without Taking All the Blame 47:45 — Forgiveness, Purpose, and Emotional Intelligence 51:10 — Final Reflections: Choosing Love and Healing If your family is struggling, distant, or hurting in ways that feel hard to name, this conversation offers insight, compassion, and hope. Listen in, reflect, and share this episode with someone who may need it. 👉 Subscribe for more conversations on family, healing, and connection 👉 Share this episode with someone who values real relationships 👉 Comment below: What helps your family feel more connected? Learn more: ⁠https://thepoweroffamilyus.com ⁠ (https://www.thepoweroffamilyus.com) Follow Us on Social Media Instagram:   / thepoweroffamilyus   Tiktok:   / thepoweroffamilyus   Facebook:   / thepoweroffamilyus   LinkedIn:   / thepoweroffamilyus   Youtube:    / @thepoweroffamilyus   (https://www.podchaser.com/ThePowerOfF...)