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Why Choosing Yourself Get's You Labeled "Selfish"

Why Choosing Yourself Gets You Labeled “Selfish” | Confessions of a Selfish Bitch Why is it that the moment a woman stops self-abandoning, she’s labeled “selfish”? In this first episode of Confessions of a Selfish Bitch, Cher Meli shares the origin story behind the name—and the deeper spiritual, relational, and ancestral patterns that shaped it. This is not a rant. It’s a reclamation. Through personal storytelling, spiritual insight, and shadow-informed reflection, Cher explores how family dynamics, mother wounds, inherited archetypes, and relational triggers shape our lives—and how personal responsibility becomes the doorway to healing, clarity, and self-trust. This episode lays the foundation for the entire podcast: relationships are not happening to us—they are happening for us. In This Episode, We Explore: Why women are called “selfish” when they choose themselves The difference between being selfish and being self-centered How ancestral and family patterns repeat until consciously interrupted Mother wounds, martyr and victim archetypes, and relational suffering Why triggers and discomfort are catalysts for growth Shadow patterns and unconscious conditioning Personal responsibility as empowerment—not blame Forgiveness as an outcome of understanding, not bypassing Turning “what happened to me” into “what happened for me” Referenced in This Episode The Little Soul and the Sun by Neale Donald Walsch Anatomy of the Spirit by Caroline Myss Buddhist and contemplative traditions Classical Yoga philosophy and self-study (svadhyaya)