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Your Relationship Looks Completely Different to Them

If you’ve been stuck in “Should I stay or should I go?” for months (or years), it might not be indecision — it might be that you and your partner are living inside two different versions of the same relationship. In this video, we’ll talk about the real first question to ask — and the simple “lens test” that can bring clarity fast: Can you accurately describe your partner’s lived experience (and can they describe yours) without arguing about it? In this video, we’ll explore: • Why “stay or go” isn’t the first question • The “two realities” problem: same relationship, completely different experience • The lens test: can you describe their experience accurately (without agreeing)? • Why we get stuck trying to change our pain by changing our partner • The difference between influence and coercion • What actually creates real change: willingness on both sides 🕛 Chapters 0:00 Same relationship, two realities 2:26 The real first question 5:27 Can you describe their experience? 9:19 When you can’t share reality 12:32 Stop trying to love change into them 15:19 What actually works (willingness) ▶️ Related Videos 5 Signs Your Partner May Be Emotionally Immature    • 5 Signs Your Partner May Be Emotionally Im...   Dating an Emotionally Immature Partner (Do THIS Instead)    • Dating an Emotionally Immature Partner (Do...  &list=PLfT1dOmg4UqVa_PVAuaZNeUo_QGDQiWcd Why You Feel Disrespected (The Boundary You’re Avoiding)    • Why You Feel Disrespected (The Boundary Yo...   ▶️ Related Playlists Trauma & Relationships: Attachment, Patterns & Emotional Safety    • Trauma & Relationships: Attachment, Patter...   🔗 Q&A Inbox (submit a question for a future episode): https://youreclaimedproject.com/ask/ 📗 Free Resources ▸ Attachment Style Quiz – Find out what’s driving your patterns https://youreclaimedproject.com/attac... ▸ Calm Down Toolkit – Tools to soothe anxiety and regulate your nervous system https://youreclaimedproject.com/calm-... You, Reclaimed is where we talk about how to take our lives back from the lasting effects of childhood trauma, anxiety, and emotional dysregulation—so we can finally live on our own terms. Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist or medical professional. The information shared on this channel is for educational purposes only and is based on personal experience and research. It’s not a substitute for therapy, medical advice, or professional treatment. If you’re in crisis or need immediate support, please contact a licensed mental health provider or emergency services in your area. If this video resonates, please subscribe and share it with someone who needs this perspective. #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #relationshiprepair #emotionalmaturity #boundaries #communication #YouReclaimed