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This will help you attract your ideal partner! Would you like me to answer one of your questions in my next YouTube video? Text me your question here: ➡️ https://www.AaronDoughty.com/question This video is gonna show you how to attract a high value man. It's gonna show you how to be able to have somebody like that stick around and be committed and show you how not to attract people that are the old paradigm, the old pattern, and that are people that are maybe draining your energy or just not up to par from what you actually want. Now, first thing about this is understanding very simply, we get in life a reflection of what we believe we deserve. So if we believe that a high value man is on this big pedestal, then what ends up happening? And we believe that we're not worthy of that, then we cannot actually attract that into our lives. I say we 'cause I mean you, I'm not trying to attract no high value man. However, I've had 10,000 people go through my challenges before, many of which are focused on attracting love. I've attracted love in my own life. And I've seen so many people transform with what I'm going to share with you in this video, okay? So when it comes to this, realize we experience a reflection of what we believe we deserve. And a lot of times what happens is if we believe that we only deserve that which we are familiar with, 'cause normally what happens is in childhood, we had a certain dynamic going on. Sometimes people may have a narcissistic relationship and that could be because they had narcissism in their lives when they were kids. And in a weird way, that feels familiar. And remember the word familiar and family, almost the same word, because things that feel familiar, it reminds of family. So what happens is when we talk about a high value man, most likely what has happened is what we've done is, you've done, not me. I'm just kidding. Well, not really, but we've familiarized different energies when we were kids and that's why we attract the same person over and over and over again, maybe with a different face, but it's similar energy dynamic. And I've shared this story before, just very, in a nutshell, after my ex-stepmom left my life which the familiar energy dynamic between the ages of 7 to 15 for me, was this woman that was narcissistic, that is narcissistic trying to control me, not allowed to have freedom, had to sneak food in order to get enough to eat, had to earn going to school activities, wasn't allowed to have friends, wasn't allowed to watch TV, there was a lot of control in my life. And then what happened, and a lot of that too I think was modeled because my dad allowed my ex-stepmom into my life, into our life. So it was like he was passive in that way, so in the same way, I became passive, because I learned from my dad. And then also I had this belief and expectation that women in my life tried to control me. So even after my ex-stepmom left when I was 17, or I was like 15 years old, when I was like 17, 18, I started dating my first girlfriend. And guess what? She was very similar to my ex-stepmom. She was jealous, controlling, not abusive, but she was more like jealous and controlling. And then was with her for four years and just like my dad, my dad was in that relationship with my ex-stepmom for seven years, way too long. He should have left away before, but he didn't see the red flags and he was too passive. So what happened with me? Well, I was in a relationship for four years and I should have left after a year or two, but I didn't because I didn't know how to break up with somebody. I didn't know that I was worthy, that I could deem that this isn't what I was worthy of. I didn't need to be controlled, but it felt familiar and safe for me to be controlled. And then I broke up with that girlfriend, finally in some kind of weird synchronicity where it kind of had to happen and it worked out kind of well. But then I got transferred to a better shoe department at Nordstrom's, which is where I worked selling woman's shoes where I was getting paid more, but the manager was the same exact energy as my ex-stepmom. There was always a woman in my life trying to control me until I became aware of that pattern, and honestly, what I did is I forgave my ex-stepmom. I had to let go of that energy. Forgave means forgive, for means before, so before you gave the meaning, 'cause everything has no built in meaning in life other than the meaning we give it, I gave it the meaning that my ex-stepmom and there was this was like evil and all this energy was happening. And because of that, I had that energy active within my field and then I attract people that reflected that back to me. So when we talk about attracting a high value man, this is about becoming aware of the familiar childhood dynamics because your familiar childhood dynamics might be having an emotionally unavailable person because maybe mom or dad was emotionally unavailable.