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The Most Powerful Person in a Toxic Family Isn’t Who You Think (Passive Dominance Explained)

In toxic family systems, power doesn’t always look loud, aggressive, or controlling. Often, the most influential person is the one who appears passive, reasonable, or “neutral”—but quietly shapes outcomes, alliances, and family narratives behind the scenes. In tonight’s live discussion, we explore the psychology of passive dominance in toxic families: • why the most powerful family member is rarely the obvious one • how silence, compliance, and “staying out of it” become tools of control • the difference between weakness and strategic passivity • how passive dominance protects the family system while harming the truth-teller • why speaking up often leads to isolation or scapegoating This conversation isn’t about labeling people or assigning diagnoses. It’s about learning to see power accurately—especially when it hides behind calm, politeness, or distance. If you’ve ever felt confused about who actually runs the family, this live will help you connect the dots. 💬 Join the live chat and share reflections—not diagnoses. -------------------------------------------------------------- #trauma #TOXICFAMILY #tamarahilllpc #familydysfunction ------------------------------------------------------------- 0:00 – Why Power in Toxic Families Is Often Misidentified 3:40 – What Passive Dominance Actually Means (And What It’s Not) 7:20 – Why the Loudest Person Is Usually Not the One in Control 11:10 – The Psychology of Silence as Power 15:30 – Enablers vs Passive Dominants (Critical Difference) 19:40 – How Passive Dominance Maintains the Family System 24:10 – Why Truth-Tellers Become the Threat 28:30 – The Emotional Cost to the Scapegoated Family Member **There is live discussion in-between the content ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Mentioned In The Video: 1. Shaw, D. (2023). Shame and Self-Alienation: A Trauma-Informed Psychoanalytic Perspective. Psychoanalytic Inquiry. 1-12. 2. Cordi, T. (2025). Breaking the Cycle of Shame-based Families | CPTSDfoundation.org. Cptsdfoundation.org. https://cptsdfoundation.org/2025/01/2... 3. Self. (2024). The Bowen Center for the Study of the Family. The Bowen Center for the Study of the Family. https://www.thebowencenter.org/differ... 4. Al Aïn, S., Carré, A., Fantini-Hauwel, C., Baudouin, J.-Y., & Besche-Richard, C. (2013). What is the emotional core of the multidimensional Machiavellian personality trait? Frontiers in Psychology, 4. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2013.00454 5. Cole, T. (2001). Lying to the One you Love: The Use of Deception in Romantic Relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 18(1), 107–129. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407501181005 ----------------------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE for more videos and chats: 👩‍💻    / tamarahtherapist   ---------------------------------------------------------------------- *New videos or a live chat every Tuesday 8:45pm est *Live chats every Friday 6:50pm est and Saturday 7:30pm est ----------------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- *Contact me---(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 16 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at contact@anchoredinknowledge.com. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. *Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter -   / therapisttee   Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherap... ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.