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Why Toxic Families Reject the One Who Speaks Up (Power, Control & Silence)

Some of the most painful rejection doesn’t come from strangers — it comes from family when you finally start speaking the truth. In toxic family systems, healthier family members often become a threat when they speak up, question unfair behavior, or point out dysfunction. In tonight’s live chat, we explore the dark psychology behind why toxic families reject, silence, or turn against the person who tries to create accountability. We’ll discuss: why speaking up destabilizes toxic family power structures how dominant family members maintain control through silence the role of enablers and passive dominance why truth-tellers are often scapegoated or pushed out how rejection is used as a psychological punishment If you’ve ever been labeled “the problem” for telling the truth, this conversation will help you understand why that happened — and why it wasn’t your fault. This live discussion is educational and reflective — not diagnostic. ------------------------------------------------- 00:00 – Why speaking up in a toxic family changes everything 03:10 – The unspoken rules of dysfunctional family systems 07:05 – Why the truth-teller becomes the “problem” 11:40 – Scapegoating as a psychological defense 16:30 – Family homeostasis: why systems resist change 21:10 – Why accountability feels like betrayal to toxic families 26:00 – Emotional punishment: silence, rejection, and blame 31:45 – The psychological toll on the one who spoke up 37:20 – Why the family often rewrites the story about you 52:00 – Live chat reflections and shared experiences --------------------------------------------------- **There is live discussion in-between the content. -------------------------------------------------------------- Mentioned In The Video: 1. Shaw, D. (2023). Shame and Self-Alienation: A Trauma-Informed Psychoanalytic Perspective. Psychoanalytic Inquiry. 1-12. 2. Cordi, T. (2025). Breaking the Cycle of Shame-based Families | CPTSDfoundation.org. Cptsdfoundation.org. https://cptsdfoundation.org/2025/01/2... 3. Williams KD. Ostracism. Annu Rev Psychol. 2007;58:425-52. doi: 10.1146/annurev.psych.58.110405.085641. PMID: 16968209. 4. Santos RM, Zanette S, Kwok SM, Heyman GD, Lee K. Exposure to Parenting by Lying in Childhood: Associations with Negative Outcomes in Adulthood. Front Psychol. 2017 Aug 3;8:1240. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2017.01240. Erratum in: Front Psychol. 2017 Oct 26;8:1900. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2017.01900. PMID: 28824477; PMCID: PMC5541268. 5. Haine-Schlagel R, Walsh NE. A review of parent participation engagement in child and family mental health treatment. Clin Child Fam Psychol Rev. 2015 Jun;18(2):133-50. doi: 10.1007/s10567-015-0182-x. PMID: 25726421; PMCID: PMC4433419. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE for more videos and chats: 👩‍💻    / tamarahtherapist   ---------------------------------------------------------------------- *New videos are every other Tuesday 8:55pm est *Live chats every Friday 6:50pm est and Saturday 7:30pm est ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Music: –––––––––––––––––––––––––––------- 🎵 Track Info: Creator Music ----------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- *Contact me-------(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 16 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at contact@anchoredinknowledge.com. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. *Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter -   / therapisttee   Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherap... ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.