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How Do I Deal With A Stubborn Boyfriend?

How Do I Deal With A Stubborn Boyfriend? Everyone has different approaches towards conflict and disagreements. It can feel extremely frustrating when you feel like you're not getting anywhere in the conversation. ***If you want to know if your relationship is healthy or needs work, click on my quiz link below now: https://kristincoaching.com/will-my-r... And if you haven't visited my website yet, click on the link below to check it out: http://www.kristincoaching.com At the end of the way, you just want your boyfriend to see your point of view, respect that, and hopefully alter his standpoint enough to where you can feel like you're on the same page and each other. There are tips on how you can communicate effectively to avoid stubborn responses: 1. Positive comments During the conversation if you make statements that are complimenting and positive, that helps bring down your partners defense mechanisms. Therefore, he will much more open to what you have to say. Let your other half knows several things you appreciate about him, even if it doesn't have to do with what you are currently talking about. Then after you do that, talk about what your concerns are using "I" statements. Don't blame him by starting a sentence with "you". If he understands that your concern is separate from all the other aspects of the relationship, the odds go up in being able to resolve the issue you want fixed. 2. Separate the problem from him If your other half gets frustrated when you talk about something that you want to be fixed in the relationship, remind your significant other that HE'S NOT THE PROBLEM. Explain to him that the problem is separate from him as a person, and that you just want the behavior/action to change. This will help him not feel as defensive and respond with stubbornness. 3. State what you need Sometimes just avoiding a discussion altogether is helpful. This way there's no back and forth that results in frustration and feeling like you're not getting anywhere in the conversation. So sometimes just letting your other half know how you feel directly is helpful. Tell your significant other how you felt when he said or did something, and what you expect from him in the future. Period. Then disengage from the conversation if you are able to. These tips are designed for your interactions to be more positive and productive. This should help both of you move past the arguments that you get stuck in together, and reduce the stubborn responses.