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Signs You’re With an Avoidant

Why do they pull away the moment you start to care? This video is a deep dive into avoidant attachment – not as a label, but as a nervous system pattern that starts in childhood and quietly shapes who you let close, how you love, and why you might panic when a relationship finally feels “real.” In this video we’ll walk through: • What avoidant attachment actually is (beyond the TikTok buzzword) • How “logical” or emotionally distant families train you to shut down your feelings • Why you end up in a chase–run dynamic (you get closer, they go cold) • What you can do if you’re always the one chasing and over-explaining • What you can do if you recognise yourself as the avoidant one • How to start setting boundaries without going numb, and ask for closeness without losing yourself If you’re the one who always texts first, apologises first, and holds everything together, this video is for you. If you’re the one who goes silent, disappears, or feels trapped when someone loves you too much, this video is also for you. This isn’t about blaming anyone or diagnosing your ex. It’s about finally having language for patterns you’ve felt your whole life – and learning a kinder way to stay, both with other people and with yourself. ──────── Chapters (approx.) ──────── 00:00 – Why they pull away when you get close 03:08 – What “attachment” really means in psychology 05:41 – How avoidant attachment is formed in childhood 10:30 – Why you end up chasing while they keep running 13:20 – If you’re always the one chasing: what you can do 18:32 – If you recognise yourself as avoidant: where to start 23:18 – A healthier middle ground between clinging and running If this helped you feel a little more seen, you can subscribe for more long-form videos on attachment, fear of intimacy, and healing your patterns in relationships. "Almost in F - Tranquillity" by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under Creative Commons Attribution 4.0. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/... Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-... Artist: http://incompetech.com/ #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #fearofintimacy #relationshipanxiety #attachmenttheory #psychology #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #traumainformed #innerchildhealing #anxiousattachmentstyle #relationshipadvice #healingjourney #selfawareness #selfhealing #boundaries #codependency