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The Shocking Truth About the "Nice Guy" Syndrome and How to Overcome It | Dr. Robert Glover

Dr. Robert Glover issues a direct challenge to modern men and relationships: “nice guy syndrome” isn’t kindness — it’s a survival strategy that quietly sabotages confidence, intimacy, and fulfillment. Drawing from decades of clinical work and his bestselling book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Glover explains how early conditioning shapes adult attachment, why many popular narratives around attachment styles miss the mark, and what actually creates authentic connection. Glover unpacks the hidden costs of people-pleasing, the erosion of masculine polarity in modern culture, and the role technology plays in weakening real intimacy. He makes a powerful case for male support groups, vulnerability, and self-responsibility as essential tools for growth. This conversation cuts through surface-level advice and offers a grounded, uncomfortable, and necessary roadmap for men and women navigating relationships in a rapidly shifting world. _ Sign up for my free weekly newsletter: https://benmumme.substack.com/subscribe? _ QUOTES - DR. ROBERT GLOVER: Empowerment Through Brotherhood "Anytime we face a fear and we do it with the support of other men, that becomes so empowering." Confronting Marital Fears Together "How can we work together to make this marriage, this relationship more satisfying for everybody involved?" Why We Struggle in Relationships "So I, I think the majority of the population, due to early childhood experience primarily with our mother and father, determines our ability to create trusting, healthy connection with other people." Decline of Traditional Relationships "More and more people report not having been in a relationship for, you know, X number of months, not having had sex in X number of months. The age of marriage keeps going up. Fewer and fewer people are getting married." The Downside of Social Media and Dating Apps "I think the social media and the apps are, they're not moving us forward. I think they're moving us backward." _ BECOME A MEMBER:    / @livingyourgreatness   Join this channel and get and get access to membership perks. _ FOLLOW BEN MUMME: Twitter (@mumme_ben):   / mumme_ben   YouTube: ‪@livingyourgreatness‬ Instagram:   / benmumme_   LinkedIn:   / benjamin-grant-mumme-42553690   _ FOLLOW DR. ROBERT GLOVER Twitter: https://x.com/dr_r_glover YouTube: ‪@DrGloverOfficial‬ Website: https://www.drglover.com/ Instagram:   / integration_nation   LinkedIn:   / dr-robert-glover-2421428   _ For business inquiries, reach me at [email protected] _ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Origin story: Destined path to become a minister. 07:39 Launched transformative "No More Mr. Nice Guy" movement. 11:13 Codependency's silence on men: an overlooked crisis. 15:46 Men historically faced danger, providers, and protectors. 21:56 Mentorship ignites growth; challenge comfort, shun ease. 26:19 YouTube's algorithm revolutionizes masculinity and self-improvement discourse. 35:24 Navigating complex, dramatic relationship dilemmas and challenges. 39:30 Men seek pickup camps for deep camaraderie. 44:49 Bravely confronting fears to transform their marriages. 48:44 Men sacrifice conflict avoidance for potential intimacy. 55:13 Women rediscover femininity, trusting transformed masculine strength. 58:38 Confidence and purpose irresistibly captivate feminine energy. 01:07:56 "Supportive men are my lifeline forever." 01:10:52 Navigating attachment styles' turbulent impact on love? 01:15:03 Childhood experiences profoundly dictate adult relationship fates. 01:22:02 Love dwindles amid a sea of digital matches. 01:28:07 Unveiling partner's hidden potential beneath defences. _ #nomoremrniceguy #niceguys #love #healthyrelationships #dating #menswork #vulnerability #mensgroup #relationships #relationshipstruggles #community #relationship #toxicmasculinity #genderroles #masculinity #feminity #nonbinary #selfimprovement #datingskills #niceguysyndrome #niceguy #selfworth #moderndating #modernlove #modernworld #confidence #selfesteem #michelangeloeffect #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiety #datingadvice #datingtips #childhoodtrauma #selflimitingbeliefs #faceyourfear #fear #discomfort #men #leadership #hardwork #unlocksuccess #potential #greatness #getuncomfortable #personalgrowth #societalpressures #robertglover #chriswilliamson #connorbeaton #markmanson #benmumme #livingyourgreatness #manhood #manliness