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Episode 3 | The Cost of Being Your True Self: Family, Friends, and Personal Growth

It still amazes me how our brains shift the moment we stop pretending and start showing up as our real selves, and I share a little story about that spark of authenticity that changes everything. In this episode, I break down the brain science behind being true to yourself: how self-awareness, emotional regulation, and social prediction work together in everyday life. You’ll hear how understanding these processes makes navigating work, relationships, and even tough conversations feel a lot less confusing. My goal is to make all of this feel accessible and surprisingly encouraging. I also open up about the fear that comes with choosing authenticity, especially when your brain is wired to avoid rejection at all costs. We talk about why people react the way they do when you start growing, and why some relationships stretch while others snap back. When you understand the neuroscience behind those reactions, it becomes a lot easier to take things less personally. And honestly, it brings a whole new level of calm to the process. To wrap things up, I share the real-life benefits I’ve seen: clearer mental space, deeper relationships, and that quiet relief of not pretending anymore. You’ll hear some practical ways to stay grounded when the people you love don’t quite understand the changes you’re making. And I leave you with one small, doable step you can take today to get closer to your truest, most comfortable self. Because you deserve connections that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with who you really are. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] Introduction. [00:02:09] 3 brain processes for developing authenticity. [00:04:24] Why do people react when you change? [00:07:05] Benefits of becoming your true self. [00:11:11] What to do when loved ones disapprove of your growth? [00:16:21] Building a life on authenticity. Memorable Quotes: "Authenticity can cost you, but it can also save you." [00:10:59] – Susan Houston "Here's the truth that psychologists and neuroscientists consistently return to: being your true self and not hiding anymore, it's not about losing people. It's about finding the people who can stay and who can lift you up." [00:16:31] – Susan Houston Connect with Susan Houston: Instagram:   / susanhouston.kienitz   Facebook:   / susanhouston.kienitz   Produced by Evolved Podcasting: www.evolvedpodcasting.com