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day two of being homeless with a baby and two dogs

As of 17 August 2025, comments are permanently disabled. As of 25 July, we moved into an apartment and have been settling in. Also, we are Canadian. I have visited the US but have never lived there. 1. Being homeless is a spectrum. It is not "if you're sheltered, you aren't homeless" or "you're only homeless if you're sleeping on a park bench." Being homeless = not having a home. From 9 July until 25 July, we did not have a home. The trailer is not mine. This obsession with "van/rv life" is a scam - it is not comfortable, it is not long-term, and it is not child-friendly. I am indescribably grateful that we had a shelter. It was not home. 2. The manner in which a child is conceived is NOBODY'S business, period. The amount of comments I've been getting telling me I "should've kept my legs together" or "should've chosen a better man" or "this is why marriage matters" is unbelievable. The fact that people have the audacity to say such inappropriate things to strangers on the internet is absolutely beyond me. My children are beyond planned and beyond wanted, period. I had an INCREDIBLY GOOD relationship with my son's father - whom I never met in person because he was a donor. He died unexpectedly. We had a plan on how we were going to raise the kids, tell them about how they were conceived, how indescribably wanted they were - and then death got in the way. There was absolutely no way to prepare for it, and it is a deeply personal situation to my children and I will NOT be discussing anything online. 3. Financial stability DOES NOT EXIST. You would not believe the income I was pulling every month prior to taking medical & maternity leave. My job is going NOWHERE and I am still employed. I am still working. I am not working full-time because I am CHOOSING to be with my children instead. It is a rocky patch financially right now and it WILL NOT LAST. 4. Ending up homeless was because I trusted someone I knew I shouldn't have trusted. My mother is a covert narcissist and has ALWAYS set me up for failure. I was stupid enough to believe that she had or could change. I fell for all the same tactics and ended up being mentally & emotionally abused more throughout my pregnancy & motherhood than ever before. I chose to flee, but was ultimately forced out when my father started to justify her criminal behaviour. It was absolutely unforeseen and I WISH I had set myself up for success by securing a place of my own before having my children, but I wanted that village and for the grandparents to be involved and they FAILED US. Hindsight is 20/20 and I absolutely could have made some better decisions timing-wise but my children are NOT ACCIDENTS. They are supposed to be here. Their existence is not an inconvenience. 5. My son is the happiest, friendliness baby you will ever meet. He is polite, great communication for his age, a wild personality, lots of curiosity and engagement, and so so much more. We have coslept since birth, he is exclusively breastfed (now of course also on solids, but still breastfeeding), cloth diapered, and eats really good food. He gets outside, he doesn't have screen-time, he has independent play and educational play, and he is LOVED. Both of my children will be 1000% provided for. Ending up living in an rv was nothing short of an adventure for my boy & dogs and none of them were stressed nor doing without. They had an incredible time. I was the only one stressed about what to do next. 6. I am presently on income assistance but am actively working on ways to pull my own income. I am not sitting on my ass waiting for everything to be handed to me. That isn't the type of person that I am. I am actively working every day to ensure I can get a home to raise my boys in. This life is chaotic and wild but it is incredibly beautiful and we always have everything we need. 7. I have had this channel for EIGHT YEARS and this is my first video to really blow up. I have NEVER been interested in being a "content creator" or having an audience. I am SO thankful for the kindness and support from most people. I am NOT here for opinions and judgement from strangers that think they know better, or know every detail of my life from one video. This is why comments are off. I'm not interested. I will continue to post the same content I've always posted but my children's privacy is my number one priority. Once people started to speculate that I'd gone out and accidentally gotten knocked up or some sht, that was my final straw. My children aren't accidents. They are planned. They are blessings. And EVEN IF someone were to accidentally get pregnant and then provide 1000% to their children, no matter their circumstances, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE ANYONE. PERIOD. Be kind to your fellow humans. Most of you are absolutely glorious and I'm so thankful for you. Some of you are truly vile and need to do a lot of self-reflecting. Jesus loves you. You can support my channel directly here: ko-fi.com/evjenvei