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The "Good Child" Syndrome: Why You Can’t Stop Fixing People

Have you ever felt a sudden, vibrating silence after hanging up the phone with your parents? You aren't just tired—you are drained. In this video, we explore the psychology of "The Architect"—the high-achieving, hyper-competent adult who learned early on that to be safe, they had to be invisible, perfect, or the therapist for their parents. If you struggle with unexplained guilt, resentment toward your family, or the feeling that you are "raising" your parents, this video is for you. We will discuss Parentification, the "Hope That Kills," and how to finally stop going to the hardware store for milk. CHAPTERS: 0:00 The "Vibrating Silence" (The Call) 0:51 Why You Feel Hatred (It’s Not Just Anger) 1:35 The Body Doesn't Lie: Trauma Responses 2:05 Meet "The Architect" (High Functioning Trauma) 2:42 The Neuroscience of the Developing Brain 3:33 What is Parentification? (The Theft of Childhood) 4:30 The Inner Child’s Delayed Rage 6:14 Jungian Psychology: The Imago & The Shadow 6:36 The "Hope That Kills" (Why You Keep Going Back) 7:40 The Shadow: Why Their Flaws Trigger You 9:18 Integration vs. Forgiveness (The Solution) 10:52 Re-Parenting: Becoming Your Own Architect 11:42 The Cord of Survival RESOURCES & CITATIONS: Carl Jung on The Imago and The Shadow The Concept of "Parentification" and Emotional Incest Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) and High Achievers #CPTSD #Parentification #ChildhoodTrauma #TheArchitect #HighFunctioningAnxiety #FamilyTrauma #Psychology #InnerChild