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5 Common Betrayal Triggers & How To Stop Them

Have you ever been having a normal day when a small sound, image, or moment suddenly sends your body into panic? After betrayal, these reactions aren’t just memories. They’re nervous system triggers that make the past feel like it’s happening again. In this episode, Caleb and Verlynda break down the 5 most common betrayal triggers they see in couples and explain why the brain flags certain cues as dangerous. You’ll learn why phones and technology spark anxiety, how unexplained time fuels worst-case thinking, why media and sensory cues hit so hard, how touch and intimacy become complicated, and why changes in routine can feel threatening even when they’re healthy. They also share practical ways to stop these triggers from hijacking your day, including radical transparency, proactive communication, reducing ambiguity, restoring choice around touch, and clearly narrating changes to rebuild safety. The episode introduces a simple framework for managing triggers in real time without shame or defensiveness. Caleb and Verlynda also explain why common reactions like minimizing, explaining, or getting defensive often make triggers worse, and what actually helps instead. With consistency, validation, and presence, triggers can fade and trust can slowly rebuild. If betrayal triggers feel overwhelming or unpredictable, and you want to understand how to manage them instead of fearing them, then this episode is for you. ==   Struggling with relationships, trauma, or addictions?   You don’t have to do it alone. At Therapevo, we connect you with expert therapists who genuinely care. And with our Right Fit Guarantee, you can feel confident knowing we’ll help you find the best match—because the right support makes all the difference. Take the next step toward healing today.   Schedule a consultation at https://therapevo.com?utm_source=yout...   ==   EPISODE TIMESTAMPS:   00:00 - Intro 01:20 – How the nervous system reacts to betrayal 02:30 – Trigger 1: Phones, devices, and secrecy cues 04:40 – How transparency reduces technology-related anxiety 06:00 – Trigger 2: Unexplained time and gaps in information 07:50 – Why ambiguity fuels worst-case thinking 09:10 – Trigger 3: Media, images, and sensory reminders 11:00 – How to reduce exposure and regain control 12:20 – Trigger 4: Touch, intimacy, and physical closeness 14:10 – Restoring choice and consent around connection 15:30 – Trigger 5: Changes in routine or behavior 16:50 – Narrating change to rebuild safety 18:00 – What makes triggers worse (and what helps instead)   ==   Connect with Us:   Website: https://therapevo.com?utm_source=yout... Instagram:   / therapevocounselling   Facebook:   / therapevocounselling   YouTube:    / @normalize-therapy