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The Job Didn’t Break Me — It Re-Triggered Me

Sometimes the job didn’t break you. It re-triggered you. For many Black Women, toxic workplaces don’t just create new stress — they mirror old relational wounds. The pressure to perform for approval. The expectation to anticipate needs without being asked. The reward for being the “strong one” — until you set a boundary. In this powerful LIVE conversation, I sit down with Dani Ellison, Tisha Mitchell, and Sondra Thigpen to unpack the parallel process between toxic job dynamics and complicated mother–daughter relationships in Black women. We’ll explore how: • Conditional love becomes self-worth tied to productivity • Parentification at home becomes overfunctioning at work • Being relied upon but not nurtured turns into hyper-independence • Suppressing emotions for harmony leads to workplace code-switching • Success can trigger resentment — at home and on the job • Loyalty makes it difficult to leave harmful environments • Praise followed by punishment creates trauma bonds • Boundaries feel like betrayal — even when they’re healthy Many Black Women are not just doing their jobs — they are reliving competence-for-safety patterns learned early in life. When closeness was unpredictable growing up, workplaces that alternate between support and criticism can recreate attachment disruptions that lead to burnout, anxiety, emotional numbing, and exit paralysis. We’ll also talk about healing pathways — including therapy, sisterhood, mentorship, spiritual practices, and even nature-based grounding — that can support somatic re-parenting and help you reconnect with your identity beyond usefulness. If you’ve ever asked yourself: “Why is it so hard for me to leave this job?” “Why do I feel guilty for setting boundaries?” “Who am I if I’m not needed?” This conversation is for you. Sometimes leaving the job isn’t just a career decision — it’s an attachment decision. ✨Dani Ellison | Founder of Divine Daughter Rehab™ ✨ Reparenting Coach for Black Women | Acudetox Specialist | Survivor Dani's YT Channel:    / @daniwentnocontact   Work with Dani: https://calendly.com/ellisonink/enroll Subscribe to Dani's mailing list: https://ellisonink.com Apply for Dani's Free Spiritual Support Group for Estranged Black Daughters: https://ellisonink.com/pray Tish's books: Radical Resilience: Confrontation Chaos, Untangle Toxic Ties, and Thrive in Midlife https://a.co/d/gbshYog Here is the link to my free download: Radiant Reinvention: Your 12-Step Roadmap for Triumph over Loss: https://www.transformwithtisha.com/ ‪@midlifemakeover‬ Sondra's services: ‪@fromlacktolegacy‬ fromlacktolegacy@gmail.com https://calendly.com/fromlacktolegacy... Dr. Kimani's Resources: 3rd Annual Job Liberation Virtual Summit For Black Women Waiting List: https://bit.ly/2026summitwaitlist *2025 Financial Masterclass For Black Women REPLAY https://liftingasweclimbconsulting.th... Emergency Money Tips Masterclass For Black Women Replay Link: https://liftingasweclimbconsulting.th... The 2nd Annual Job Liberation Virtual Summit For Black Women Replay Link: https://2025jobliberationsummit.heysu... 🦋**Join the the Butterfly YouTube Membership Community For Black Women**🦋 / @liftingasweclimbconsulting ✨ Download your FREE Job Liberation Toolkit here: https://tinyurl.com/liberation-toolkit 💲Purchase the "Save Yourself Masterclass: Channel Your Inner Harriet and Save Yourself From That Hostile Toxic Job With Your Sanity & Your Coins!" Replay: https://liftingasweclimbconsulting.th... ➡️ PURCHASE MY WORKBOOK, Welcome to Your Queendom, to help you reconnect to yourself if you're looking to exit a toxic work environment: https://manifestinghealing.kit.com/pr... ➡️ SUBSCRIBE TO MY FREE NEWSLETTER: https://manifestinghealing.kit.com/ne... AFFILIATE LINK: D'IYANU African Clothing (Use code LIFT25 at checkout for 15% off) Shop D'IYANU clothing using my affiliate link here: https://diyanu.myshopify.com/discount... 🚨 Legal Disclaimer: Please note that this video does not provide psychological services or therapy. Dr. Kimani shares personal experiences, offers valuable resources, and provides information to empower Black women who are toxic job survivors. Who am I? Dr. Kimani Norrington-Sands, a Black Woman Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a Toxic Job Survivor with more than 20 years of experience providing mental health and consultation services. I'm on a mission to help Black women leave and heal from toxic jobs. To learn more about my own experiences in a toxic job, watch the videos below in which I am interviewed by Stephanie Perry as well as Glamazini. • Black Women Leaving Toxic Jobs ✌🏾 • Black Women Leaving Toxic Jobs ✌🏾 w/ Dr. K... https://www.youtube.com/live/YucMGqDe...