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How the RISE Model Moves You from Roommates to Teammates

Long-term couples rarely fall out of love overnight. Usually, they just fall into "logistics mode" where work, kids, and chores crowd out the space for connection. When life feels like an endless to-do list, intimacy starts to feel like just another chore. This shift into the "roommate phase" doesn't mean you are a failure. It is often a sign that your nervous system is overwhelmed and doesn't have the capacity for desire in this moment. I developed the RISE model based on a decade of experience as a therapist and my own journey of moving from performance pressure to true connection. By focusing on how we regulate, illuminate, strengthen, and empower, we can look beneath the surface of our patterns to restore safety and play. Rebuilding intimacy is not about perfect performance. It is about learning how to stay present in your body and choosing intentional connection one small habit at a time. In this episode of The RISE to Intimacy Podcast, I walk through four of the most common questions I hear in therapy to show you how the RISE model works. We explore why you might still feel attracted to a partner you don’t want to sleep with, how to bring back passion when things feel routine, and how to stop being "ships passing in the night" so you can start feeling like teammates again. 1:57 – Why long-term couples feel like “roommates” and how to start reconnecting with your spouse 6:46 – The internal battle that can silently switch off desire (even when you’re still attracted to the other person) and why most people never recognize it 11:18 – An overlooked climate that is needed for desire to grow and shapes how the body responds to touch and closeness 15:21 – A counterintuitive truth about passion that challenges everything we’ve been taught about spontaneity 16:59 –  Why you shouldn’t wait to go to couples therapy if you or your spouse has mentioned the idea of doing so 21:21 – How to bring back passion and sex when everything feels routine or awkward 30:17 – How to prevent drifting apart in a long-term relationship so you can continue growing together Mentioned In How the RISE Model Moves You from Roommates to Teammates Come As You Are (https://www.emilynagoski.com/books) and other books by Emily Nagoski  Rise to Intimacy Free 30-Minute Consult (https://www.risetointimacy.com/initia...) Leave a rating and review (http://ratethispodcast.com/rise)