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I Used to Think Criticism Was Helping—Now I See Why People Avoided Me

Why do people pull away when all you're trying to do is help? In this video, Building Success breaks down the hidden reason criticism ruins relationships — inspired by Chapter 1 of How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. You’ll learn why pointing out flaws — even with good intentions — often backfires, and how a small shift in how you communicate can change everything. If you've ever felt misunderstood, frustrated, or confused about why people don’t respond the way you expect, this video is for you. Whether you're trying to improve your relationships, lead a team, build a business, or grow your personal influence, understanding the psychology of criticism, emotional intelligence, and human behavior is critical to your success. This episode dives deep into why criticism, complaining, and condemning often lead to resistance instead of results — and how to stop sabotaging your own connections without realizing it. Based on timeless advice from Dale Carnegie and backed by modern psychology, you'll walk away with practical tools to become more influential, more respected, and more trusted in every part of life. 👀 What You’ll Learn: Why criticizing others doesn’t change them (and what actually does) The real reason people get defensive and shut down How to give feedback without ruining relationships How to communicate like a leader, not a critic The powerful mindset shift that helped me rebuild trust This isn’t just another motivational video — it’s a brutally honest look at how the words we use shape the results we get. If you want better relationships, stronger leadership, and long-term personal growth, this message will challenge you in all the right ways. 🎯 Who This Video is For: Entrepreneurs who struggle to lead teams effectively Professionals who feel ignored or misunderstood Anyone trying to improve communication with family, friends, or coworkers People stuck in conflict cycles and looking for better strategies Students of personal development, self-improvement, and emotional mastery 🔔 Subscribe for More Powerful Success Tips! If you found this video helpful, smash that like button and subscribe for more mind-blowing strategies to help you build success in your career and personal life!:    / @stephen_cofer   🔔 Turn on notifications to stay updated with our latest content! Here's a great video to WATCH NEXT:    • Retire Sooner Than You Think—If You Say ‘Y...   Timecodes: 0:00 Introduction 0:53 Francis "Two Gun" Crowley 1:37 Abraham Lincoln 2:16 Ever been told you’re wrong in front of other people? 3:07 Stop leading with blame 4:34 Charles Schwab 6:17 The top predictor of divorce 8:09 Wrap-up 8:45 Q&A 8:48 Q1: But what if someone deserves to be criticized? Isn’t it wrong to let bad behavior slide? 9:15 Q2: How do I deal with people who always complain or criticize me? 9:37 Q3: Isn’t positive feedback just sugarcoating? What if the person doesn’t take me seriously? 9:59 Q4: How do I stop myself from criticizing when it feels automatic? 10:19 Q5: Does this apply to parenting too? Kids need discipline, right? 10:45 Conclusion ---------------------------------------------------------------- If you got anything out of this video, you're welcome to support the channel: https://buymeacoffee.com/buildingsuccess ---------------------------------------------------------------- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie: https://amzn.to/3JUlrmb ---------------------------------------------------------------- Equipment I use: Journal: https://amzn.to/4r1ZYIu DJI Mic Mini: https://amzn.to/4oGRwgg Toneof 66" Tripod: https://amzn.to/48eY53V Quad Lock Tripod Selfie Stick: https://amzn.to/4oK1vSf Ulanzi VL119 Light Wand: https://amzn.to/3WSPptI Sandisk 2TB Extreme SSD: https://amzn.to/3LFdkdS As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ---------------------------------------------------------------- Francis Crowley photo credit: By Unknown - https://robertwalshwriter.files.wordp..., Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?... B.F. Skinner photo credit: By Silly rabbit - self-made (by User:Silly rabbit). Updated in the Gimp by User:Michaelrayw2., CC BY 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index... Keywords: how to win friends and influence people, dale carnegie chapter 1, stop criticizing others, emotional intelligence, leadership communication, how to give feedback, influence and persuasion, improve relationships, building trust, personal growth, self improvement, leadership skills, communication tips, criticism psychology, stop complaining, condemn and criticize, why people pull away, better relationships, personal development tips, human behavior, influence people, self awareness