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if you think men and women can't be friends, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM

This is ep. 2 of Yap Out The Thoughts, part of Aire’s Digital Journal, we unpack why the idea that “men and women can’t be friends” is such a toxic and outdated belief — one that society has long outgrown. As humans, we all view the world through our own lenses, shaped by our experiences and limitations. And often, when someone insists that men and women can’t form genuine, non-sexual friendships, it says far more about them than it does about reality. If the concept feels unfathomable, it’s usually because they wouldn’t be able to maintain that boundary themselves — so they assume no one else can either. But that mindset doesn’t represent the majority. It overlooks emotional maturity, respect, and the simple truth that connection doesn’t always come with ulterior motives. In this episode, we challenge that assumption, talk about projection, boundaries, and why it’s time to let go of narratives that limit how we see each other. If you’ve ever questioned this idea — or been frustrated by it — this one’s for you. You’re not alone. There are still plenty of sensible people out there — and yes, we are the majority. We think and operate based on our minds, our values, and our capacity for respect, not on reproductive parts. Sending you all lots of love and blessings, even those who disagree with this ep (hope you find the light someday...)! - Chapters and timestamps: 00:00 – If You Believe Men & Women Can’t Be Friends 00:37 – We Only Understand Life Through Our Own Perspectives 00:53 –Why Some Ideas Cannot Be Comprehended Sometimes 02:35 – What That Belief Actually Says About You 03:32 – Boundaries, Projection, and Crossing Lines 04:33 – Love Is Spiritual, Emotional, Intellectual (Not Just Sexual) 05:47 – Either You’re That Person… Or You Don’t Trust Your Partner 06:55 – You Deserve Someone Untakeable 07:22 – Stop Thinking From Your Private Parts 08:17 – Evolution, Growth, and Conscious Relationships 09:38 – Pure Platonic Friendships Exist 10:16 – Attraction Doesn’t Erase Humanity 10:43 – Your Circle Shapes Your Reality 11:27 – If Someone Says This to You: Run 12:00 – Take What Resonates, Leave What Doesn’t 12:31 – Closing + Gratitude - #relationships #toxicmasculinity #platoniclove