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NO ONE needs tough love (try this instead)

Many of us grew up hearing the idea that people need “tough love.” But does harshness and hardness actually help people grow? In this video I explore three different ways we often respond to human struggle: • asking what’s wrong with you • asking what happened to you • and asking what’s right with you Through the lens of strengths-based and resilience-based approaches, we explore why focusing on people’s strengths can create far more possibility than toughness. Sometimes what people need most is not more pressure or hardness. There is already so much hardness in the world. Sometimes what people need is to be reminded that they are capable, valuable, and worthy of care and that they are not reduced to "what is wrong with them?" or "what happened to them?". A strengths based approach reminds people of their inherent and basic goodness and can be motivation for their personal growth.