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Relationship Advice: How To Learn To Trust Him Again [3 STEPS]

Sometimes trust in your relationship can get broken, and it's important to know how to learn to trust him again if this happens. Being hurt and betrayed by someone you love is the worst feeling in the world. And it's natural to never want to experience that type of pain again. So one of the most difficult things a person can do is how to learn to trust him again, especially if he's hurt you in the past. ***If you want to know if your relationship is healthy or needs work, click on my quiz link below now: https://kristincoaching.com/will-my-r... Just because you have been betrayed before doesn't mean the relationship is over. Many couples push through the betrayal and rebuild the trust in their relationship. But this process is tedious and can take a long time. It's important to remember some things for yourself if you are going to learn to trust him again. 1. Stop blaming yourself Even though it's not rational, we tend to blame ourselves for bad things that have happened to us in past or current relationships. We say to ourselves, "If I wasn't so gullible" or "If I would have just asked more questions". But the fact is, we can't look back at the past and fix it. When you stop blaming yourself, you allow room for compassion and understanding. You stop beating yourself up over something you have no control over. This allows space for you to move on and understand that your current situation is not the same as before. 2. Stop blaming the person or people who hurt you Whether multiple people have hurt you in the past or just one person, it's important to stop blaming them for their wrong doings. Not blaming the person does not mean that you are accepting what they did to you; it means that you are cutting off emotional ties to it and giving yourself the freedom you deserve. 3. Let go of the control It's important to keep in mind that no matter how much you trust someone, you will always be left with a little bit of faith in not knowing what the future holds. There is absolutely no guarantee that you will not get hurt again, no matter how much you prepare and no matter what you do. That's why there is a peace that comes with letting go. Believe in yourself that you are a strong person and you will be okay if you did get hurt again. The tighter you hold onto the leash and don't trust someone does not give that person more room to disobey your trust. It just puts more of an exhaustion upon yourself. So let go of the control.