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Expert Talk: Your Childhood Is Running Your Relationship (Especially After Moving In)

Moving in together can feel like the “next step”… and suddenly your relationship feels harder than ever. In this Expert Talk, I sit down with licensed psychotherapist Mary Ternovsky (Crystal Up) to unpack why cohabitation often activates childhood roles, old attachment patterns, and powerful unconscious dynamics—plus what you can do to break the loop and reconnect. 🎙️ In this conversation, you’ll learn: • Why adults unconsciously replay childhood roles in love • What “transference” and “countertransference” mean in real-life relationships • How your parents’ dynamic can show up in your conflict style • Why some conflicts never get resolved (and how to approach “perpetual” problems) • Cultural differences, projections at work, and why conflict can be a bridge to intimacy • The “Narcissist Trap,” idealization, and how social media influences modern relationships 👤 Guest: Mary Ternovsky (licensed psychotherapist) 🌐 Learn more: https://www.crystal-up.com/ If this topic resonates, drop a comment: What changed after you moved in together? — Timon (Real Relationship) Subscribe for more expert talks + practical relationship tools. ⚠️ Note: This video is for educational purposes and does not replace professional therapy, diagnosis, or medical advice. Chapters: 00:00 Highlights 00:50 Intro 01:39 Adults start unconsciously replay their childhood roles 03:17 Meaning of transference & Childhood affection in Relationship 05:09 Living together from an Astrology Perspective 06:54 Repetition Compulsion - How Parents affecting your relationship 10:24 Understanding & Healing your Relationship with your Parents 16:36 The Complementary Countertransference in Partnership 18:18 How to resolve perpetual conflicts 20:35 Cultural Differences in Relationship & Work 21:38 Projecting at Work 23:22 Conflicts as a chance to connect 24:23 Constantly avoiding of conflicts & Astrological Trends 27:33 Dating Phase - How to identify Traumatic Characters 31:24 3 Dimensions of a Relationship 32:54 The ”Narcissist Trap” 34:11 Idealization in a Relationship 36:00 How Social Media affects Relationship & Epstein Files 40:12 Outro #relationship #movingintogether #attachment #childhoodwounds #couplestherapy #relationshipadvice # relationshiptips