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How to Stay Calm When You’re About to Lose It as a Parent

Every parent hits that moment—the one where stress takes over, patience runs out, and it feels like you’re about to lose it. What you do in that moment matters, not just for your child, but for you. In this supportive episode of The Parenting Pair Podcast, Dr. Suzanne Allen and Dr. Annalise Caron unpack what’s really happening when parents feel emotionally overwhelmed. They explain how stress hijacks our nervous system, why even the most mindful parents lose their cool, and what science-backed tools can help you regulate and reset in real time. Dr. Allen and Dr. Caron share four practical strategies every parent can use when distress hits hard—plus a simple, evidence-based approach called the TIPP skill from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that can quickly bring your body back to baseline. Together, they explore: ● Why losing your temper doesn’t make you a bad parent ● How your body signals that you’re nearing the edge ● The 4 steps to reduce distress and recover calm ● How to use the TIPP skill to cool down your stress response ● Why regulating yourself helps your child feel safe and secure Here are some highlights from the episode: 00:00 — How it Feels When You’re About to Lose It 01:32 — The Double Pressure: Caring for Kids and Aging Parents at the Same Time 02:38 — Tip #1: A Simple Way to Cope with Parenting Stress and Overwhelm 04:25 — The Power of Self-Compassion for Parents Under Stress 06:13 — Tip #2: Ditching the Comparison Trap in Modern Parenting 07:23 — Tip #3: Finding Supportive Friendships to Ease Parenting Overwhelm 11:45 — Tip #4: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations 13:49 — Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Its Benefits for Parents 14:18 — Using the TIPP Skill: A Proven DBT Technique for Crisis Moments 15:19 — How the “Temperature” Technique Helps Reset Your Emotional State 16:55 — How “Intense Exercise” Calms the Body During Stress 18:28 — “Paced Breathing”: A Science-Backed Way to Find Calm Fast 20:19 — “Progressive Muscle Relaxation”: Releasing Tension to Regain Balance If you’ve ever found yourself on the verge of snapping—and wished you had a reset button—this episode will give you the tools, mindset, and compassion you need to stay grounded when parenting feels hardest. 🔔 Subscribe to @theparentingpair for more science-based strategies and expert insights on parenting, stress, and emotional wellbeing. 👉 Follow us for more tips and support on parenting teens   / theparentingpair   🌐 Visit https://www.theparentingpair.com to listen and learn more. __________________________________________________________________________________________________ The Parenting Pair podcast is designed for informational and educational purposes only. Do not rely on the information presented in this podcast as as a substitute or replacement for professional -- psychological or medical -- advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have concerns about you or a family member's well being, please contact a licensed mental health professional or physician __________________________________________________________________________________________________ #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthsupport #mentalhealthtips #teenagers #teenager #parenting #parentingadvice #parentingjourney #parentinghacks #parentinglife #parentinggoals #parentingpodcast #ParentingStress #MomBurnout #DadBurnout #ParentingTips #ParentingPodcast #OverwhelmedParents #DBT #DialecticalBehaviorTherapy #TIPPskill #EmotionalRegulation #SelfCompassion #MindfulParenting #ParentingAnxiety #ParentSelfCare #ParentSupport #RaisingKids #CopingSkills #MentalHealthForParents #ParentingHelp #TheParentingPairPodcast #psychologist #gentleparenting #emotionalintelligence #parentingsupport #PeacefulParenting #modernparenting #dadlife #momlifebalance