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EP233: Estrangement Is Trauma For Parents

In this episode of The Estranged Heart, Kreed addresses what the estrangement conversation has been avoiding: the traumatic impact of estrangement on parents at a nervous system level. This isn't about excusing harm or pressuring reconciliation. It's about understanding why telling parents to "just get it" has failed. There's extensive talk about adult children's experiences, boundaries, and emotionally immature parents, but almost no trauma-informed conversation about what estrangement does to parents. When something this big goes unnamed, it shows up sideways in resistance, defensiveness, rigidity, and shutdown. For parents, estrangement isn't just painful - it's traumatic. From their perspective, it arrives suddenly, often without warning, and destabilizes core identity: • Who am I if I'm not a parent in relationship with my child? • What did my life mean if this is how it turned out? • What does the future look like now? Parents are expected to metabolize this identity collapse quietly and quickly while simultaneously becoming more reflective, accountable, and curious. This expectation is neurologically incoherent. "Parents don't change because they are told to 'be accountable.' Parents change when their nervous systems can tolerate reality without collapsing." Resources & Support The Heart Collective Membership Community • Twice-monthly live support groups for estranged and reconciled moms • Community support and resources Facebook Support Group (facilitated by Kreed) -   / estrangedmotherssupportgroup   One-on-One Services • Private coaching • Consulting • Mediation services Connect with Kreed: • Website: theestrangedheart.com (http://theestrangedheart.com) • Email: hello@theestrangedheart.com • Support the work: Buy Me a Coffee (https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere) (donation platform) Disclaimer: Kreed Revere is not a licensed therapist. Nothing in this podcast should be considered or taken as therapy. If you need therapeutic support, please seek out a therapist near you.