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Enemies to Lovers: Why Your Brain Thinks Hate Is Love 🧠

A romance trope video on how to make your own better days. Next Episode: 𝕿𝖊𝖆𝖘𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕷𝖔𝖛𝖊 Previous Episode: 𝕮𝖔𝖉𝖊𝖇𝖔𝖚𝖓𝖉 ►►    • Will AI Fix Your Loneliness? 🤖 Trapped by ...   Our minds often fall for on-screen enemies in romance anime like A Silent Voice (Koe no Katachi), not because the body betrays but because the mind misreads normal physical arousal as attraction. Today, we explore the psychology behind the enemies-to-lovers trope, from misattribution of arousal to self-serving and self-effacing tendencies, and show how overconfidence or being overcautious, having a low or high need for closure, and even being stuck in denial or acceptance can collapse the "bridge" from hatred to love. Through emotional examples and uncomfortable truths, we learn how false chemistry forms and why it feels so convincing, and why we should keep our ABC keys (Accountability, Break, Curiosity) close so we don't lose the tools that prevent relationships from becoming destructive in fiction and in real life. Main anime & manga mentioned: A Silent Voice Songs: Wadanohara OST - Waltz of Destiny Infinito Quartet - To ostatnia niedziela    • Infinito Quartet - To ostatnia niedziela   Genshin Impact OST - Aubade of Coppelia & Envoi of Coppelius I wrote a fake Professor Layton tune    • I wrote a fake Professor Layton tune   Hollow Knight Silksong OST - Bilewater " 妖艶なる絆の響き " ( シムーン ) fingerstyle ( ソロギター ) arrange TAB    • " 妖艶なる絆の響き "  ( シムーン ) fingerstyle ( ソロギター...   Other references: Abramson, L. Y., Seligman, M. E., & Teasdale, J. D. (1978). Learned Helplessness in Humans: Critique and Reformulation. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 87(1), 49. Costa, M. D. S. D. (2025). The Trope Enemies to Lovers: An Analysis of Book Lovers and Love, Theoretically. Forsyth, D. R. (2008). Self-Serving Bias. Houghton, J. D., & Johnson, T. D. (2009). Aggression, Risk Taking, and Leadership Effectiveness: Leadership Lessons From the Explanatory Styles of Civil War Generals. Int J Leadersh Stud, 5, 51-68. Liu, R. T., Kleiman, E. M., Nestor, B. A., & Cheek, S. M. (2015). The Hopelessness Theory of Depression: A Quarter Century in Review. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice, 22(4), 345. Muramoto, Y., & Yamaguchi, S. (1997). Another Type of Self-Serving Bias: Coexistence of Self-Effacing and Group-Serving Tendencies in Attribution in the Japanese Culture. The Japanese Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 37(1), 65-75. Schachter, S., & Singer, J. (1962). Cognitive, Social, and Physiological Determinants of Emotional State. Psychological Review, 69(5), 379. Seligman, M. E. (1973). Learned Helplessness. Seligman, M. E. (1991). Learned Optimism. Sinclair, E., Hart, R., & Lomas, T. (2020). Can Positivity Be Counterproductive When Suffering Domestic Abuse?: A Narrative Review. International Journal of Wellbeing, 10(1). Vosgerau, J. (2010). How Prevalent Is Wishful Thinking? Misattribution of Arousal Causes Optimism and Pessimism in Subjective Probabilities. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 139(1), 32. Wiseman, J. P., & Duck, S. (1995). Having and Managing Enemies: A Very Challenging Relationship. In Confronting Relationship Challenges (pp. 43-72). SAGE Publications, Inc.. Timestamps: 00:00 Prologue 01:38 Act 1 - Betrayal Cuts Deepest 04:44 Act 2 - When We Deceive Ourselves 09:00 Act 3 - Time After Time 14:52 Epilogue #betrayal #betrayalstory #romance #romanceanime #koenokatachi #asilentvoice #communication #enemiestolovers #enemiestoloversromance #enemiestoloverstrope #enemiestoallies #misattributionofarousal #selfservingbias #selfeffacingbias #needforclosure #bias #healthyrelationships #relationship #relationshipadvice #perspective #humanity #humanbehavior #humanrelationships