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Psychology of A Child Who Grew Up Too Fast

Parentification is what happens when a child becomes an adult too soon. This video explores the psychology of kids who had to “grow up early”, the ones who comforted their parents instead of being comforted, took care of siblings, managed the house, and carried everyone’s emotions except their own. In psychology, parentification is now recognized as an Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE). It’s a role reversal and a form of emotional neglect: the child is pushed into functioning like a parent inside the family, often in situations of illness, addiction, poverty, single parenthood, grief, or chronic stress. Even when there is no bad intent, the impact on emotional development can be deep and long-lasting. In this video, we’ll look at: What parentification is and why it’s considered an ACE The difference between instrumental parentification (chores, caring for siblings, running the household) and emotional parentification (being the therapist, peacekeeper, confidant for adults) How parentification rewires the nervous system for hypervigilance and chronic stress, using Stephen Porges’ polyvagal theory Why these children are often praised as “mature,” “responsible,” or “little adults” while paying a very high emotional price The links with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, OCD, codependency, and difficulty setting boundaries later in life The role of high sensitivity (HSP traits) and social factors like adultification bias, which research shows especially affects Black children and Black girls How some people transform this experience into empathy, leadership, and helping professions – and what “shadow” patterns can still follow them into adulthood We’ll also talk about what healing can look like: re-parenting yourself, trauma-informed therapy (CBT, EMDR, IFS), inner child work, and rebuilding family boundaries so children can actually be children. We’ll clarify the difference between healthy responsibility (normal chores and helping out) and harmful overload that steals rest, school stability, and a real childhood. If you’ve always felt “too responsible,” struggle to ask for help, or only relax when everyone else is okay, this video can help you put words to what you went through and understand that this isn’t a personality flaw. It’s an adaptation to an impossible situation. Sticky Psy = psychology that sticks If you’re interested in psychology, invisible childhood trauma, and research-based personal growth, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications for more videos like this. 🧠💛 #parentification #childhoodtrauma #emotionalneglect #innerchildhealing #psychologyexplained SOURCES / REFERENCES Boszormenyi-Nagy, I., & Spark, G. M. (1973). Invisible Loyalties: Reciprocity in Intergenerational Family Therapy. Hooper, L. M. (2008). Defining and Understanding Parentification. Jurkovic, G. J. (1997). Lost Childhoods: The Plight of the Parentified Child. Dariotis, J. K., et al. (2023). Parentification: Vulnerability, Reactivity, Resilience, and Thriving. Masiran, R. (2023). The positive and negative aspects of parentification: An integrated review. Children and Youth Services Review. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). (Updated Sept 24, 2025). About Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). Swedo, E. A., et al. (2024). Youth Risk Behavior Survey, United States, 2023. MMWR. Shu, Y., et al. (2025). The long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences on health outcomes. (peer-reviewed article) Porges, S. W. (2025). Polyvagal Theory: Current Status, Clinical Applications, and Future Directions. Aron, E. N., Aron, A., & Jagiellowicz, J. (2012). Sensory Processing Sensitivity: A Review in the Light of the Evolution of Biological Responsivity. Personality and Social Psychology Review. Epstein, R., Blake, J. J., & González, T. (2017). Girlhood Interrupted: The Erasure of Black Girls’ Childhood. Georgetown Law Center on Poverty and Inequality. Cooke, A. N., et al. (2021). Adultification, anger bias, and adults’ different perceptions of Black children. (peer-reviewed article) Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and Loss, Vol. 1: Attachment. Psychology Today Staff. (n.d.). Codependency. (overview) American Psychological Association (APA). (n.d.). What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)? National Library of Medicine (NLM/NIH). (Updated Aug 21, 2025). In brief: Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). American Psychological Association (APA). (2023). What is EMDR therapy and why is it used to treat PTSD? American Psychological Association (APA). (2017). Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Buys, M. E. (2025). Exploring the evidence for Internal Family Systems therapy: a scoping review of current research, gaps, and future directions. Disclaimer: This channel is created for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to replace professional psychological, medical, or therapeutic advice.