Why do I want sex so much (or so little)? Understanding your desires скачать в хорошем качестве

Why do I want sex so much (or so little)? Understanding your desires

If you're dealing with a desire discrepancy, you probably think you know what you want: more sex, or less sex. But what I've learned is this: there's always more under the surface. And that information is gold for figuring out the way forward together. If you're the higher-desire partner, what are you actually seeking when you want sex? Is it validation? Connection? Reassurance that the relationship is okay? If you're the lower-desire partner, what are you really trying to avoid when you don't want sex? Certain sensations? Emotions? Pressure? Memories? When you dig deeper and get honest answers to these questions, everything shifts. You can communicate what you actually need, you stop putting invisible pressure on your partner, and you find other ways to meet your real needs. This episode walks both partners through the questions you need to ask yourselves—with curiosity, not judgment. Plus: how to stop asking yourself crappy questions that make you feel worse, and start asking empowering ones instead. Your brain will answer whatever you ask it. Let's ask better questions. Check out Emily Nagoski's latest book here: Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections (https://www.emilynagoski.com/) Special Course Announcement: limited time, last enrollment: Thriving Together, Couples Healing Attachment Patterns Through Touch A Groundbreaking 6-Week Live Online Workshop with Dr. Aline LaPierre & Dr. Laura Jurgens starts February 1, 2026 https://neuroaffectivetouch.com/thriv... Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at https://laurajurgens.com/libido Find out more about me at https://laurajurgens.com (https://laurajurgens.com/) / Read The Desire Gap Blog at https://laurajurgens.com/the-desire-g...