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Why You Keep Choosing Chaos While Chasing Safety | Jamie Carlson

You've worked really hard to create stability in your life, financial security, a career that looks impressive, the kind of life you always said you wanted. But when you look at your calendar, there's always something urgent happening, always a crisis that needs your steady hand, always a situation where everyone's counting on you to stay calm and figure it out. And when things do calm down, when there's space to breathe, it doesn't feel like relief, it feels uncomfortable, like something's about to go wrong. You might think this just keeps happening to you, that it's unlucky timing or just what leadership looks like, but what if you're the one choosing it, what if your nervous system only recognizes chaos as safe because that's what you grew up in, and peace feels threatening because you don't know how to function there. In this conversation with Jamie Carlson, we unpack why high achievers keep gravitating toward crisis-driven environments even while saying they want peace, how your nervous system gets wired to only feel safe in chaos, and what it actually takes to stop choosing pressure because it's familiar and start letting yourself have the life you've already built. Jamie spent years at Meta and PayPal as the person everyone turned to when things fell apart, the calm in the storm who could hold anything. For most of her life, she was in chronic nerve pain every single day, pain she accepted as normal and wore like a badge of honor because being able to handle anything had become her identity. She'd spent her entire life escaping the chaos she grew up in, building the financial security and stable life she'd always wanted, but she kept ending up in crisis-driven environments because chaos was familiar, because that's where she knew how to function, where she felt competent and needed. The safety she'd been building through achievement had nothing to do with actually feeling safe. If you've built the life you always wanted but can't let yourself enjoy it or find fulfillment in it, if your body is carrying tension or pain you've normalized as just how you are, if you keep finding yourself in high-pressure situations and telling yourself it just keeps happening to you, this conversation is for you. CONNECT WITH JAMIE CARLSON: LinkedIn:   / jamiemcarlson   Company: Curical Consulting   / curical   FREE RESOURCES: The Safety Paradox Assessment Grab your free assessment to see if you're running this pattern of choosing chaos while chasing peace. Includes five deep coaching questions to help you understand why you keep doing it and what actual safety would require of you. 👉 lisacarpenter.ca/bonus Book Your Free Congruency Audit If you're recognizing that you've been chasing peace while choosing chaos, the Congruency Audit is where we go deeper. We'll look at the gap between the success you've built on the outside and what you're actually feeling on the inside, identify the exact patterns keeping you stuck in over-functioning mode, and map out what it's going to take for you to finally stop proving and start being present in the life you've already created. 👉 lisacarpenter.ca/audit ABOUT CONGRUENT: Congruent is for ambitious professionals who look successful on the outside but feel exhausted or unfulfilled on the inside. Hosted by Master Coach Lisa Carpenter, each episode reveals how to stop living in Doing Mode and start creating success that feels as good as it looks. FOLLOW CONGRUENT: Website: lisacarpenter.ca Instagram: @lisacarpenter.ca LinkedIn:   / lisacarpenterinc