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The Cost of Misalignment: How to Recognize Burnout Before Life Forces You To

What if the life that looks successful on the outside is slowly breaking you on the inside? Today’s guest, Adrian “AJ” Jones, survived two Widowmaker Heart Attacks and both times, his body forced him to face the truth: he was wildly misaligned with the life he was living. AJ spent 20+ years in intense leadership roles with companies like BlackRock, Schwab, and Wells Fargo… all while quietly burning out. Today, he’s the founder of MORE, a career wellness platform helping high-achieving professionals move from autopilot to alignment and build lives that feel as good as they look. In this episode, we talk about: ✅ The quiet signs you're burning out (even when you’re still “performing”) ✅ Why working moms hit misalignment faster than most ✅ The life-changing clarity AJ gained on a hospital gurney ✅ How to reconnect your ambition with who you actually are ✅ The “I Want” exercise every woman needs this week If you’ve been overwhelmed, exhausted, or wondering “Is this it?” this conversation will breathe truth and clarity back into your life. ⏰ Timestamps 0:00 Why this conversation matters for working moms (success outside, exhaustion inside) 0:23 Meet Adrian “A.J.” Jones + his wake-up call story 0:29 Two Widowmaker heart attacks + corporate success redefined 1:13 Show intro 1:48 Setting the stage: when life looks good but doesn’t feel good 2:04 A.J.’s background: executive roles + founder of MORE + Code 3 Life Reinvented 2:58 The question: how the heart attacks changed his definition of success 3:17 Heart attack #1 (Oct 8, 2016) + high-pressure life details 3:36 The mountain biking moment when symptoms hit 4:33 “On the gurney” clarity: the 3 thoughts that changed everything 5:11 Fear of leaving his wife a widow + kids fatherless 5:32 Regret moment: rushing out without saying “I love you” 6:32 The decision: “not today” + fighting to walk out 7:05 What mattered most after survival: family, life, perspective 7:31 Aftermath: recovery, ceiling-staring questions, and searching for a new path 8:06 The “lightning bolt” mission: use his story to help others get more out of life 9:11 Quiet signs of burnout/misalignment (even in high-functioning people) 9:38 Pillar #1: self-compassion as the foundation (house metaphor) 10:40 “Survivor superpowers” + sensing misalignment in others 11:11 Self-soothing patterns + not making time for yourself 11:38 Shannon reflects on moms + “superwoman” pressure 12:24 A.J.’s hill to die on: radical honesty + authenticity as the antidote 13:22 Values + non-negotiables + closing the drift that fuels burnout 13:54 The identity tension: career self vs. mom self 14:26 Bridging the gap: performative living vs. radical honest truth 15:10 Defining your top 3–5 values (not others’ expectations) 15:51 Discarding what no longer serves you as you evolve 16:11 Leaving corporate in 2017 + the messy path of reinvention 16:44 Finding his voice: anonymous blogging → public talks → podcasts 17:14 The relapse into misalignment: “it got horrific” 17:35 The tree metaphor: roots in old identity, branches in new direction 18:11 The cost of misalignment: depression, anxiety, physical symptoms 18:55 “It’s not worth it” — choosing health and sanity 19:03 Where to connect: bemorealigned.com + email + podcast name meaning 19:41 Why it’s called Code 3 (life-threatening emergency code) 20:26 Weekly takeaway challenge: the “I want” exercise 20:55 How to do it (quiet space, phone off, write without censoring) 21:23 Turning wants into non-negotiables + next actions 21:39 Wrap + gratitude 21:52 CTA: promotion strategy call + share/review + closing encouragement 🔗 Connect with AJ: https://bemorealigned.com READY FOR YOUR NEXT STEP? 💰 Start Here: Take the Fast Track Your Income Quiz to understand what’s actually holding your income back—and what kind of move makes sense next. → https://theshannonfox.com/fast-track-... 📞 Book a Promotion Strategy Call: If you’re ready to talk through your goals, your current role, and what’s realistically possible next, book a Promotion Strategy Call. This is for women who want clarity, positioning, and a plan—not guesswork. → https://theshannonfox.com/promotion-s... 📲 Join the Women Who Get Promoted Facebook Group if you want support, conversation, and real-world career strategy with women who get it →   / womenwhogetpromoted   💌 Become an Insider to receive weekly insights, promotion strategy, and behind-the-scenes coaching you won’t hear on the podcast. → https://theshannonfox.com/email-opt-in 🎧 LOVE THE SHOW? 👉 Subscribe & leave a review so more career moms can discover these game-changing career strategies! Kat and Tanner by Twin Musicom is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/... Artist: http://www.twinmusicom.org/