The Lifelong Effect of NOT Being Loved as a Child скачать в хорошем качестве

The Lifelong Effect of NOT Being Loved as a Child

What if the deepest wound you carry isn't from something that happened TO you—but from something you never received? In this video, we explore the profound and lasting effects of childhood emotional neglect. You'll discover how the absence of love in your early years literally rewires your brain, shapes your attachment style, and influences every relationship you'll ever have. But here's the hope: neuroplasticity means your story doesn't have to end with your childhood. In this video, you'll learn: • Why children need love like oxygen (Bowlby's Attachment Theory) • What the Still Face Experiment reveals about emotional neglect • How the ACE Study links childhood trauma to adult mental health • The difference between anxious and avoidant attachment styles • Why we unconsciously recreate painful relationship patterns • How "earned secure attachment" can heal old wounds • Practical steps for reparenting yourself • How awareness can break generational cycles of trauma If this resonates with you, you're not alone—roughly 40% of adults carry this invisible wound. Drop a comment below sharing your thoughts or experiences. Don't forget to LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE for more content on psychology, healing, and personal growth. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - The Invisible Wound 0:22 - Attachment Blueprint 0:47 - The Still Face 1:13 - Brain Under Siege 1:43 - Inner Working Models 2:13 - The Echo Chamber 2:37 - The Good News 3:09 - Reparenting Yourself 3:33 - Breaking The Cycle 3:52 - Closing Reflection 📚 REFERENCES: • John Bowlby - Attachment Theory • The Still Face Experiment • The ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Study • Sigmund Freud - Repetition Compulsion • UCLA Research on Earned Secure Attachment • "Running on Empty" by Jonice Webb 📖 ADDITIONAL REFERENCES: • "Attached" by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller • "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk • "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson • Research by Mary Ainsworth on Attachment Styles