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Do We Need Men To Emotionally Attune? We Must Stop Trying to Change Our Partners

General advice - not for toxic relationships. Men are fine - just the way they are. I have plenty of women that come into my office stating that men are emotionally ignorant or retarded - and I also see articles on how to get men to become more emotionally attuned. There was an article in the Journal of Social and Personal relationships that stated that 60% of men feel emotionally disconnected to partner - leading to dissatisfaction on their side. Men just don’t talk about it. They don’t discuss how confused they are about women and what women want. MRI scans have shown that men’s brain activity in response to emotional triggers is nearly identical to that of women, yet they are less likely to show it outwardly Women on the other hand have no trouble expressing their disappointment. If men had a favourite way of describing their feelings about women, it would be ‘ it’s not that deep’. High Sensitivity in Men—Approximately 20% of men fall under Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs), a trait that involves heightened awareness of subtleties and deeper emotional processing. This percentage is nearly identical to that in women (Dr. Elaine Aron, Psychologist). How can we bridge this apparent chasm between what men want and need in a relationship and what they have to offer? If we, as women, are the ones who are so emotionally attuned, shouldn’t we be the ones ‘reading the room’ and directing the conversations? The scorecard theme is the real problem here. This pursuit for justice - competitiveness - often makes our partners opponents rather than partners or colleagues. Get your emotional uplifts from people other than your husbands or partners. If this topic resonates with you, feel free to explore more by reading my blog posts or following me on social media. You can also subscribe to my weekly newsletter for additional insights. Dive deeper with my podcast! Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to the Mixing Business With Pleasure podcast. Website: https://luellajonk.com/mbwp-podcast/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2RjBTy7... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...