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🔴ROCD Q&A 3: Attraction Confusion Cheating Fears | Retroactive Jealousy | Premarital Sex | Neediness

Welcome to the third installment of my Relationship OCD question and answer series, whre I dive into the struggles people face when ROCD invades your life. PREMARITAL SEX, ROCD & GUILT: What do I do if I had premarital sex with the person I am dating and now I question if God wants us to marry? How do I stop looking for "signs" that this relationship is wrong? ATTRACTION CONFUSION AND THE FEAR OF CHEATING: How do I handle intrusive thoughts about being attracted to other people? Why do I compulsively check my feelings during every interaction with the opposite sex? What's the difference between noticing someone is attractive vs. emotional infidelity? RETROACTIVE JEALOUSY: How do I deal with the sexual past of the other person? NEEDINESS vs ROCD: What's the difference between "cultural obsession" (infatuation/neediness) and OCD obsession? DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIPS & BOUNDARIES: How do I handle relationship OCD when I'm also dealing with toxic family members? Should I sever relationships or learn boundaries? How can a mental health therapist with OCD navigate their own relationship struggles? UNEQUALLY YOKED RELATIONSHIPS: Should I marry someone who isn't a believer but supports my faith? How do I handle guilt and shame from others about my relationship choice? Is this a clear biblical issue or OCD making me uncertain? LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS & PORN ADDICTION: How does pornography addiction impact relationship OCD? Why do I constantly check my feelings after a rejection or awkward moment? How do I stop the neediness/avoidance cycle? SHAME, STDs & FEELING UNLOVABLE: How do I heal from sexual shame while carrying physical consequences? Will anyone want to marry me once they know about my past? How do I have honest conversations about my history without being defined by it? Key Principles Covered: ✓ The dangerous pattern of looking for "signs" from God in your relationship decisions ✓ Why "God, if it's your will" prayers keep you stuck in unproductive cycles ✓ How to stop compulsively "checking" your feelings and attraction levels ✓ The difference between healthy discernment and OCD-driven fear ✓ Why perfectionists struggle with their romantic interest's past and imperfections ✓ Understanding anxious AND avoidant attachment in the same person ✓ How Christian perfectionism feeds relationship anxiety ✓ When to get engaged instead of prolonging dating timelines 📘 The Myth of the Perfect One: https://bit.ly/44kZu7B Relationship OCD Resource Page: https://markdejesus.com/relationship-... 📘Get The OCD Healing Journey Book Today: https://markdejesus.com/the-ocd-heali... ➡️Get a FREE eBook on the Father’s Love: https://bit.ly/3fGu6t3 ▶️Mark's resource library: https://markdejesus.com/topics/ 👉Support future videos: https://markdejesus.com/donate/ 🌎Join the Healing and Freedom Community: https://markdejesus.com/community Music Provided by Epidemic Sound: https://share.epidemicsound.com/73m02k and Audiio: https://ref.audiio.com/3c99d6zk Mark's Podcast and Video Equipment: https://markdejesus.com/equipment/ Music Through Epidemic Sound: https://share.epidemicsound.com/73m02k Disclaimer: The content published is for informational purposes. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in our material. The resources given are not designed to practice medicine or give professional medical advice, including, without limitation, medical direction concerning someone's medical and mental health. Any resources given are not to be considered complete and does not cover all issues related to mental and physical health. In addition, any information given should not replace consultation with your doctor or any other mental health providers and/or specialists. 0:00 Intro 11:30 Mark Welcome / Info Update 13:58 How To Submit A Question To Mark 14:54 SuperChat - Is There ROCD that is not romantic? 16:48 Email - The Relationship OCD Lives are Helpful!! 24:21 Question - Premarital Sex & ROCD 31:48 Question - Someone Doesn't See A Future With Me?? 35:07 Question - ROCD Difficult People and Being Disciplined By God?? 48:58 DANCE BREAK 49:20 Question - ROCD, Atraction Confusion & Fear of Cheating?? 56:36 Question - ROCD & Discernment?? 1:01:05 Question - What About Spiritual Compatibility?? 1:05:15 Question - Hard Time Getting Over A Past Relationship?? 1:07:58 Question - Unequally Yoked?? 1:12:40 DANCE BREAK 1:15:22 Retroactive Jealousy?? 1:21:40 I Have An STD and I Feel Tainted for Someone to Love Me?? 1:25:10 Question - OCD & Dating/Attraction ?? 1:27:18 Question - ROCD Compulsive Checking & Feelings?? 1:38:23 DANCE BREAK 1:41:16 Wrap Up