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Why Christian Disciplines Aren’t Saving Your Marriage | S2E3

This week on The Grounded Union Podcast, discover how Christian disciplines like prayer, fasting, and Bible reading—despite being foundational practices—sometimes fall short in saving marriages. Hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen bravely share their journey from passionate missionaries with an impeccable "spiritual resume" to facing severe marital struggles, exposing the dangerous gap between spiritual disciplines and emotional maturity. Despite daily Bible reading, prayer, fasting, multiple church services, and even Brandon's 40-day fast, their marriage was crumbling with addiction, betrayal, and disconnection. They reveal how Western Christianity's segmented approach creates fragmented lives where spiritual practices become escape mechanisms rather than tools for authentic intimacy. This episode challenges listeners to stop hiding behind religious performance and start doing the real work of integrating shadow parts of themselves. A paradigm-shifting conversation that offers hope to couples who've tried everything "spiritual" but still feel emotionally distant from their spouse. Workshops for Couples: Tap here to attend one of our 2025 in-person workshops https://www.groundedunion.com/ Our 2025 Grounded Union workshops & intensives: 📍San Diego, CA – In-Person & Virtual (SOLD OUT) 🏝️Maui, Hawaii – 3-Day Intensive—limited to 20 couples, lodging included! (October 10th-13th) Looking for immediate support in your marriage? Community for Men: Tap here to start your 14-day FREE trial https://www.groundednation.com Workshops for Couples: Tap here to attend one of our 2025 in-person workshops https://www.groundedunion.com/ Grounded Intimacy Program: Tap here for more info on our online couples program https://courses.groundedintimacy.com/... Follow us on social at   / brandontalksmarriage   &   / caitlyn_doerksen   Check out our IG account to stay updated   / groundedunionpodcast   Timestamps & Key Moments: 00:00:28 – Introduction and Resources: The hosts introduce the episode's central question and their intention to share their own story of struggling despite practicing Christian disciplines. They invite listeners regardless of their faith background, and highlight available resources like the Grounded Nation men's community app and the Maui 3-day Marriage Intensive. 00:01:57 – How We Met and Early Marriage: Caitlyn begins sharing how she and Brandon met as missionaries in Ecuador, bonded over their shared vision for ministry, and eventually got married. 00:03:16 – The Vision for Ministry and Marriage: Brandon elaborates on their early vision to be lifelong missionaries, rescue women from sex trafficking, and start orphanages. 00:07:24 – The Spiritual Resume: They emphasize their "spiritual resume" of church, prayer, fasting, and discipline, and how it ultimately didn’t prevent their disconnect. 00:10:14 – The Segmented Christian Life: Many Western Christians live "segmented" lives, separating their spiritual self from their practical and relational selves. 00:18:20 – The Gospel's Invitation to Face Pain: The gospel isn't an excuse to ignore pain but an invitation to face it, heal, and integrate every part of oneself. 00:23:09 – Freedom from Cuffs: True freedom is possible if one uncuffs themselves from limiting belief systems and steps into the hope and love of Christ. 00:24:47 – What Must I Do?: The common question about earning freedom challenges the idea that spirituality is about achieving or attaining. 00:29:44 – The Shadow Parts of You: What is often labeled as "temptation" or "sin nature" is the unintegrated "shadow parts" of oneself that need to be welcomed and healed. 00:33:54 – God is in Every Moment: Dismantling the idea of separation from God; God is present in every moment of life. #TheGroundedUnionPodcast #ChristianDiscipline #Relationship