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The Complicated Art of Accepting Compliments

Episode Summary In this episode, we’re talking about overthinking and people pleasing—and how the two are often way more connected than we realize. We dig into why we feel the need to think everything through, make everyone comfortable, and say yes when we probably shouldn’t. We also explore how hormones, boundaries, leadership roles, and even parenting play into people pleasing behaviors, sometimes without us even noticing. Along the way, we talk about psychological safety, communication, and the illusion of control we can fall into when we’re trying to manage everyone else’s emotions. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever wondered, Why am I doing so much—and is it actually helping? If you’ve found yourself overthinking, over-accommodating, or losing pieces of yourself along the way, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways Overthinking can be productive when thoughts are expressed and processed out loud. People pleasing is often influenced by hormonal shifts, particularly changes in estrogen. Reexamining how we spend our time can reduce people pleasing behaviors. Boundaries are essential for maintaining self-identity and emotional health. People pleasing can create unhealthy dynamics in relationships and workplaces. Psychological safety supports honest communication and effective leadership. The illusion of control in relationships can lead to dependency and dissatisfaction. Over-accommodating in parenting may limit children’s self-esteem and problem-solving skills. Clear communication helps resolve tension in both leadership and personal relationships. Understanding the problem-solving cycle can interrupt people pleasing patterns. Notable Sound Bites “We’d like to overthink all the things.” “Are we better off for it? I’m not sure.” “Can you fully stop people pleasing?” Episode Chapters 00:00 – Introduction to Overthinking and People Pleasing 02:52 – The Impact of Hormones on People Pleasing 06:00 – Reevaluating Time and People Pleasing 09:02 – Boundaries and Self-Identity 12:03 – People Pleasing in Leadership 14:58 – The Consequences of People Pleasing 17:59 – Psychological Safety and People Pleasing 20:51 – The Illusion of Control in Relationships 23:55 – Parenting and People Pleasing 27:04 – The Cycle of Problem Solving and Self-Esteem 30:05 – Communication as a Solution 33:01 – Conclusion and Call to Action Instagram @thinkaboutyourthinking Tittok: thinkaboutyourthinking Have a question, comment, or something you’d like us to think about? Email us at ⁠thinkaboutyourthinkingpodcast@gmail.com