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join skool community: https://www.skool.com/masteringlife In this video, I react to a YouTuber's video that reminds me of something many of us don’t want to admit. If you already KNOW your parents or guardians aren’t supportive of your gayness, sometimes the wisest move is to wait until you have the means to stand on your own. Not because you’re ashamed, but because your peace matters. I talk about what happens AFTER you come out. The tension. The grief. The expectation shift. Because whether people admit it or not, they had a version of your future in their minds. When you reveal your truth, some of them aren’t just reacting to “gay”. They’re reacting to the death of an expectation they were attached to. I’m not excusing abuse or anything of that nature. I’m not telling anyone to stay in toxic situations. I’m talking about the people who are TRYING, but they’re clumsy with it. If they’re attempting to love you through their bias and confusion, can you meet them halfway with emotional intelligence and maturity? I also share personal stories about my family, my godparents, and what it looks like when love chooses growth over pride. Timestamps 0:00 - Intro, the video I saw, and why I’m talking about this 1:17 - Why coming out might need to wait (safety and stability) 2:27 - My experience, and why resentment keeps you trapped 3:35 - Coming out isn’t only about you, it hits family expectations 5:21 - Extend gratitude and grace (even if it’s uncomfortable) 6:27 - The grief parents feel when their “future plan” breaks 8:30 - When forgiveness is the goal, not reconciliation 9:36 - People need time to grow, just like you did 14:00 - My godparents' story and how expectations shaped reactions 18:01 - What support looks like now, and why that matters 20:00 - Meet them halfway, emotional intelligence starts with you #BlackGayMan #ComingOutStory #FamilyHealing #ForgivenessJourney #LGBTQTruth