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Why You Attract Toxic People (It’s Not Just "Bad Luck").

Do you feel like a magnet for narcissists and manipulators? It’s not bad luck. In this video, we uncover the psychological mechanism behind why you attract toxic people and how to finally close the door on them. We dive deep into: The "Porous Boundaries" that act as an open invitation. The "Savior Complex": Why you try to fix broken people. The addiction of "Intermittent Reinforcement" (why the bad times make you stay). The crucial difference between being "Nice" and being "Kind." TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] The "Magnetic" Attraction: Identifying why you might overlook healthy people to focus on manipulators. [00:50] Targeted for Value: Why high empathy and weak boundaries make you a "beacon" for toxic individuals. [02:17] Porous Boundaries: The "unlocked house" analogy and the cost of being endlessly available. [02:56] Childhood Roots: How "fawning" as a survival strategy in childhood leads to people-pleasing as an adult. [03:35] The Savior Complex: The hidden motivation behind trying to "fix" broken people to secure attachment. [04:29] Intermittent Reinforcement: Understanding the "slot machine" effect of inconsistent affection. [05:21] Trauma Bonding: Why your brain becomes addicted to the chemical cycle of highs and lows. [05:47] Red Flags vs. Potential: How we reframe toxic behavior as a "challenge" to be solved. [06:41] Being Nice vs. Being Kind: Distinguishing between fear-based compliance and strength-based generosity. [07:22] Boundaries as Filters: Using standards to let the right people in while filtering out the wrong ones. [08:13] Retraining Your Body: Learning to accept peace and safety over high-intensity chaos. [08:35] Weekly Assignment: Practicing "the pause" to observe rather than react to new connections. [09:48] The Hoovering Tactic: An introduction to how toxic people try to pull you back into the cycle. If you’re tired of the drama, this video is your first step to peace. 🔔 Don't forget to subscribe for the next part on "Hoovering" – the tactic they use to pull you back in. #Psychology #MentalHealth #ToxicRelationships #Narcissism #Boundaries #TraumaBonding #SelfLove #SelfImprovement #AttachmentTheory #Gaslighting #PsychologySimplified #SaviorComplex #PeoplePleasing #EmotionalIntelligence ------------------------------------------------------ AI DISCLAIMER Quick Note: We use AI voice and visuals in this video to bring these psychology concepts to life.