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GET MORE: http://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt166 "Should I Text Him?" Answers To Your 7 Texting Questions It's funny how texting has blasted its way onto the scene to become just about THE most important communication tool of the modern day. Even more than email...! Ever wonder why? I think texting is popular because: It's quick... you can send a message in just seconds... Messages are short and to-the-point... You can think before you speak... You can also say some pretty racy things in text that you might not have the guts to actually SAY to that person... You don't need to engage in a 10-120 minute conversation with someone. Just send and forget... And you don't need to interrupt whatever you're doing... There are many more reasons, but I'll bet you haven't thought of THIS one: It's kind of addicting to put yourself in a state of "What will he say next?" We like the suspense of not knowing what's going to happen next. It's like the thrill of game shows. We thrive on uncertainty. (BTW - I'll reveal how you're probably making a HUGE mistake with your texting in a bit...) So it follows that I get a TON of questions about texting guys and how to do it right. Now, let's go into the top 7 texting questions I receive from my readers... with the answers! Let's start with: TEXTING QUESTION 1: "Do I text him first?" Good question, and it cuts right to the heart of the responsible roles for men and women in relationships. If you've just met a guy, and you hit it off, and then exchanged numbers - should you text him? In this day and age of "female empowerment" - it might seem like that's an okay thing to do. You might hear a bunch of "gurus" and "experts" out there telling you to "go girl! Let him know you're interested!" I'm telling you that's BS. Plain and simple. Don't buy into that nonsense... Men don't want women to chase them. If there's one thing that's murdered the power women have had in the dating process it's feminism. (In case you just gasped in shock at that, remember that I'm turning over a new leaf here. I'm telling you the nasty, unspoken truth. ) If you just met him, you're going to be on pins and needles wondering if he's interested in you. And the only way you're going to REALLY know is if he texts you first. Or calls you first. "But Carlos, what if he forgets... or doesn't text me?" Then HE WASN'T INTERESTED IN YOU! Your texting him first will not change that ONE BIT. And even worse, if you lack the self-control to hold back - and you DO text him first - you'll have ruined it for him. No more suspense. Now he'll know that YOU are more interested. And he doesn't have to chase or work for you. After all, you're already chasing him. So ... stop doing that.  And - just to be extra clear - even if he was interested, if you text him first you'd STILL be tearing your hair out wondering if he was interested in you. You just gave away your power. A woman needs to see a man's interest for her to believe it. And to feel adored... TEXTING QUESTION 2: "How much should I text him?" There are two sides to this question: How much should you text him in quantity, and in frequency. I'll handle the frequency question in a minute. As far as how much should you put into your text in words... 43 Yup, 43 words and no more. Actually, that's just my way of saying, no one can answer that specifically. So instead I'll teach you the reason why. You have to look at your own habits... Ask yourself: "Do I tend to work too hard in relationships?" "Am I a bit too THERE?" "Do I lean into relationships instead of leaning back...?" Only you know your own behaviors. But if those questions feel like they're familiar to you, you might consider you're the personality that is probably texting too much. It comes from... ...drum roll ... INSECURITY! I was like this in dating for years. I was so afraid of losing out on the woman I was dating that I went overboard on everything. I was too ... THERE. When it comes to dating and texting, women tend to go overboard on the texting. So it's better to swing the pendulum in the other direction - say a little too little. You'll always do better by making him WONDER than letting him know too much about your interest. It's what men work for. TEXTING QUESTION 3: "Do I text him after the first date?" This one is pretty close to the first question, but I've got more to say about it... First of all - you don't need to... For the full article - Click the link above! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_c... =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook:   / carlosdatingguru   =========================================== Do I text him? 7 Texting Problems - SOLVED!    • Should I Text Him? 7 Texting Tips | Relati...