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How does a Trauma Bond START?

How does a trauma bond really begin—and why is it so hard to spot in the beginning? In this video, Ilze and Quinton unpack the early stages of a trauma bond, explaining why these relationships often start off feeling intense, exciting, and deeply connecting. We explore how love bombing, early obsessiveness, and seemingly “healthy” jealousy can feel flattering at first—but slowly shift into subtle criticism, emotional imbalance, and walking on eggshells. You’ll learn: What love bombing actually looks like in real relationships Why early red flags are so easy to dismiss How subtle belittling and criticism creep in over time The role of inconsistency and emotional highs and lows Why trauma bonds create imbalance, self-suppression, and hypervigilance If you’ve ever felt confused by a relationship that started intensely but slowly eroded your sense of self, this conversation will help you understand why. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction 00:12 Love Bombing 00:30 Examples of Love Bombing 00:52 Compared to Situationships 01:25 Obsessiveness and Jealousy 01:51 Easy to Dismiss as Infatuation 02:03 Slow Decline into Unhealthy Behaviour 03:15 Focus on External Elements Before Turning Personal 03:28 Imbalance and Inconsistency in Trauma Bonds 03:39 Safety in Relationships 03:55 Putting you Down and Building Themselves Up 04:09 Suppress Your Own Needs and Feelings and Avoid Conflict 04:30 Which Signs Do You Recognize? 👇 Join the conversation Have you noticed any of these signs in your own relationships—or in someone close to you? Share your experience in the comments below. 📺 Also watch: Why you can't Leave:    • People DON'T get THIS about leaving a TRAU...   In this video, we break down the chemical cocktail in the brain that keeps trauma bonds alive. *8 Signs that it's a Trauma Bond:    • Why Emotionally Intelligent People STILL E...   In this video we discuss 8 Signs that you might be in a Trauma Bond relationship 👍 If you found this helpful, please like, subscribe, and share this video with someone who may need it. #TraumaBond #LoveBombing #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalAbuse #AttachmentTrauma #RelationshipHealing #IQRelationships