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INTJs: Stop Treating Preferences as Facts

You might be right… and still be landing as harsh. If you’re an INTJ (or just a high-standard perfectionist type), this is one of the sneakiest ways you accidentally create friction in relationships. Today I’ll show you a simple reframe that keeps your standards and protects the connection. In this video, we’ll cover: Why “I know what’s best” shows up so naturally for INTJs (even when you’re trying to be open-minded) The classic conflict: what “3:00” means (and why it becomes a character judgment so fast) The real problem: treating your view as objective reality instead of a personal preference A cleaner way to communicate: shifting from correction energy → request energy Practical language you can use right away (time, dishes, projects, anything that feels “obvious” to you) A quick self-check: where are you being rigid… and what’s the “preference version” of that? Question for you: Where do you notice your “obvious” way showing up most — time, cleanliness, planning, communication, money, something else?