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Are You One Up Or One Down, Boundaryless Or Walled Off

Which quadrant are you in? Learn how the Relationship Grid (One Up vs. One Down, Walled Off vs. Boundaryless) explains toxic dynamics that impact our health and relationships. More at: https://lissarankin.com Which Quadrant Are You In? Understanding Power, Boundaries & Relational Dynamics with Dr. Lissa Rankin | RelationSick Preview Do you tend to be the one who over-functions—or the one who disappears? Are you controlling, avoidant, people-pleasing, or deeply withdrawn? In this video, Dr. Lissa Rankin introduces the Relationship Grid, a powerful diagnostic tool from Relational Life Therapy (developed by Terry Real), which maps four dysfunctional relational patterns across two axes: power dynamics (One Up vs. One Down) and boundaries (Boundaryless vs. Walled Off). These patterns are foundational to RelationSick, Dr. Rankin’s upcoming book (co-authored with Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Jeffrey Rediger), releasing in May 2026. 💡 In this video, you’ll: Discover the 4 quadrants of relational dysfunction: Boundaryless + One Up Walled Off + One Up Boundaryless + One Down Walled Off + One Down • Learn how these dynamics show up in everyday relationships (romantic, familial, professional) • Recognize your own relational default—and why it may be making you sick • Understand how opposites attract: why One Ups are drawn to One Downs and vice versa Begin the process of mapping your relational ecosystem with curiosity, not shame 🌀 Want to go deeper? Explore this model more intimately through LOVE SCHOOL, Dr. Rankin’s IFS-based community for relational recovery, available now at https://lissarankin.com. 💬 Drop a comment with what quadrant you resonate with—or what surprised you most. 🔔 Subscribe for more preview content from RelationSick, and for weekly trauma-informed teachings on boundaries, power, and healing relationship patterns that keep us sick.