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They’re Straight, Not Gay: 10 Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men

In this video, I talk about a topic that confuses and challenges a lot of people: why some straight men have sex with men and why that doesn’t automatically mean they’re gay or bisexual. I’m Dr. Joe Kort, a psychotherapist with over 40 years of experience, and I’ve been discussing this topic publicly since 2020 after going viral on social media. In this video, I walk through the top 10 reasons straight men may engage in sexual experiences with other men, including trauma and trauma reenactment, prostate pleasure, sex for money, power and kink dynamics, cuckolding and hot wifing, availability, father hunger, homosexual OCD, exhibitionism and voyeurism, sexual fluidity, and bi-curiosity. I also explain the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation and why behavior alone never defines who someone is. Toward the end of the video, I share the four questions I ask clients to help them decide for themselves whether they are gay, straight, or bisexual. I don’t label people and I don’t decide for them. Only you get to decide who you are. You don’t have to agree with me, but I hope this video helps you think differently, ask better questions, and have more compassion around how complex sexuality really is. 📘 If you want to explore this topic more deeply, check out my book: 👉 Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? — https://www.amazon.com/My-Husband-Gay... Chapters / Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction 0:35 – Sexual behavior vs sexual orientation 0:48 – Trauma and trauma reenactment 1:32 – Trauma reenactment vs trauma play 1:52 – Prostate pleasure 2:45 – Sex for money and power dynamics 3:32 – Cuckolding and hot wifing 4:26 – Availability and opportunity 4:53 – Father hunger 5:53 – Homosexual OCD (HOCD) 6:43 – Exhibitionism and voyeurism 7:16 – Sexual fluidity and heteroflexibility 8:11 – Bi-curiosity 8:42 – The four questions I ask clients 10:48 – Final thoughts Instagram:   / drjoekort   Facebook:   / drjoekort   TikTok:   / drjoekort   LinkedIn:   / joekort   Twitter (X): https://x.com/drjoekort Threads: https://www.threads.com/@drjoekort Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/drjoekort.bs... Podcasts: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1750559/ep... Website: https://joekort.com/