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Question: Sir, my mind instructs me to go outside the house; even I yearn for it but I am unable to gather my wits for it. One day, one of my male neighbours called out to me. My neighbour made me sit comfortably in his shop and inquired about my problem. I had gone to talk to him despite not feeling like stepping out of the house. But it turned out to be a good move as I had gone out of the house only twice before. Sir, why are things such as going out of the house and meeting openly with people so difficult for me? I want to come out of my shell but it is a problem for me, although this is not a very big thing. Apart from this, I want to study but if I go by your theory of considering myself as the mind and listening to it then I will never study. My exams are beginning soon. Initially, I listened to my mind and stopped studying and then I went against my mind and started studying but I could not study much. Eventually, through experience I have realised that what you say about the mind is true, ‘we have no control over our minds.’ In this way, our mind will make us do whatever it wants us to do; which are definitely not the right things but the wrong ones. Sir, with due respect, if I accept what you say, which is I am The Mind, then my Mind will make me spend money to eat anything and everything. If I surrender myself to the mind then it will not prompt me to remember anything. I have experimented on this as well. If I sit down to think then I wrap it up in an hour but my mind does not support me. Mind becomes my enemy not my friend. What to do in such times? Sometimes, I have good thoughts as I keep myself away from bad influences such as falling in love and being in bad company. Even if I like a girl even then I don’t look at her. This is the mind, what can be done in this? But still I try to avoid these things as soon as they come to my mind. By avoiding my bad mind, I become very happy because after this, I achieve a good mind. Maybe I was searching for this only. I cannot explain it but I can definitely say that if I don’t listen to my bad mind then I am very happy. This is the secret of my happiness. Sir, my question to you is, will I be able to avoid my bad mind? Till now, I have only realised that mind is an enemy. Because of this mind I have seen destiny slipping off from my hands. I am 20 years old and if I have an enemy then it is the mind. I have suffered a lot at the hands of this mind. If I was not listening to it then I would have been doing CA and IPPC. If I am not happy today, it is because of the mind.