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Finding Love After 40 — Why the Fourth Date Might Change Everything | Alyssa Dineen

More than 37 million Americans over 50 are single — and for midlife women who are newly divorced, widowed, or simply ready to try again, the modern dating world can feel overwhelming. Dating coach and author Alyssa Dineen left an 18-year marriage in her early forties and navigated online dating firsthand before building Style My Profile, a coaching practice helping women over 40 find love with confidence, strategy, and a lot less heartache. In this episode, Alyssa shares the exact approach that helped her — and has helped countless midlife women since — including her signature "four-date minimum" rule, why we keep chasing the wrong kind of chemistry, and what it really takes to build an authentic dating profile that attracts the right match. One of her clients found the love of her life and got married at 84. It is never too late. 🎧 CHAPTERS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Welcome to the Love Series Finale 3:00 - Introducing Alyssa Dineen 4:30 - Leaving an 18-year marriage in her early forties 6:45 - How dating became a journey of self-discovery 8:15 - Meeting her partner on Tinder & the birth of Style My Profile 11:00 - The parallel between career reinvention and dating reinvention 12:45 - Why authenticity in dating profiles matters so much 16:30 - The four-date minimum — and why most people give up too soon 17:00 - What actually happened on Alyssa's own four dates 21:00 - When it's time to keep going vs. move on 23:00 - Neural pathways, old patterns, and the science of attraction 26:00 - Why we're still chasing the wrong kind of "exciting" 30:15 - Dating app technology for midlife women 36:00 - The most important thing to know about finding love after 40 38:00 - Curiosity as the single best dating tool 39:15 - Alyssa's podcast: The Dating Lab 40:00 - The radical self-care practice of napping 42:00 - How to find and support Alyssa 📌 IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: ✔ Why the four-date minimum can change everything for women dating after 40 ✔ How to recognize when you're chasing anxiety instead of real connection ✔ What makes an authentic dating profile actually work ✔ Why midlife women have real advantages in the dating world ✔ How to navigate dating apps when the technology feels overwhelming ✔ Why it is genuinely never too late to find love 💬 FEATURED QUOTE: "It is not too late. I hear this from a woman who's 40, 45, 50, 60 — everybody thinks they've waited too long. It is not too late." — Alyssa Dineen 🔗 CONNECT WITH ALYSSA: Website: http://stylemyprofilenyc.com Instagram:   / stylemyprofilenyc   Instagram (personal):   / alyssadineen   TikTok: @stylemyprofile Podcast: The Dating Lab (all major platforms) 💛 THIS EPISODE'S SPONSOR: Join the Tribe — a curated shop featuring products from emerging founders with inspiring stories. More than half the products support a woman building something meaningful. 🛍 Shop at jointhetribe.com and use code UPLIFTER20 for 20% off your first order. 🎙️ ABOUT THE UPLIFTERS PODCAST: The Uplifters is a Signal Award-winning podcast featuring courageous women in the second half of life doing bold, brave things — and pulling back the curtain on what that really looks like. Host Aransas Savas is a wellbeing and leadership coach with 20+ years of behavioral research experience. New episodes every week. 📲 FOLLOW THE UPLIFTERS: Instagram:   / the_uplifters_podcast   TikTok:   / theuplifterspodcast   Website: https://www.theuplifterspodcast.com Substack: Subscribe at theuplifterspodcast.substack.com 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and leave a review if this story moved you — it helps us reach more uplifters. #FindingLoveAfter40 #MidlifeDating #DatingAfterDivorce #WomenOver40 #MidlifeReinvention #OnlineDatingTips #SecondActLove #DatingCoach #MidlifeWomen #CourageCapital #TheUpliftersPodcast #MenopauseMindset #LoveAfter50 #DatingAppsOver40 #StartingOverAt40