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How to Become Securely Attached | Being Well Podcast

In today’s episode, Dr. Rick and I focus on one of the most common, and most important, questions we get about attachment theory: can we heal our attachment wounds, and become more securely attached? We explore the basics of attachment theory, whether people can change their attachment style, and how much change is truly possible. We then discuss some common frameworks for change, the power of positive experiences, and how we can break out of the “catch-22” of attachment wounds. The episode ends with practical advice for what an anxiously or avoidantly attached person could do to become more securely attached over time. Key Topics: 0:00 Introduction 1:50 An overview of how attachment develops 7:30 Four components involved in changing your attachment style 10:55 Tendencies vs. behavior 12:50 The four stages of growth, and developing “conscious competency” 17:50 Recognizing the ways you’re included, seen, appreciated, liked, and loved 24:35 The role of individual effort, and the real driver of motivation 29:00 What helps anxious people become more securely attached? 41:50 And what helps avoidant people? 50:30 How to ground ourselves when people are unreliable 56:15 Recap Subscribe to Being Well on: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5d87ZU1... Who Am I: I'm Forrest, the co-author of Resilient (https://amzn.to/3iXLerD) and host of the Being Well Podcast (https://apple.co/38ufGG0). I'm making videos focused on simplifying psychology, mental health, and personal growth. You can follow me here: 🎤 https://apple.co/38ufGG0 🌍 https://www.forresthanson.com 📸   / f.hanson