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One Person Cannot Be Your Whole Community! Here's Why | The Daily Donna

Contrary to popular belief, one person is not and can never be your end-all be-all. And if you're making your lover (or your best friend) into your everything, that relationship is under more pressure than it needs to be. In this episode of The Daily Donna, we are detroying the why the fairy tale trope of 'one person for everything' and talking about how that idea is setting your relationships up to fail. We're talking about the Disneyfication of love, how capitalism reinforces it at work and at home, what happens to your relationship when your person is also your therapist, best friend, advisor, and entertainment — and what to do instead. * * * * * * Chapters to Check: 0:00 — One person cannot be your everything. I said what I said. 0:42 — Intro + the fairy tale trope we all got fed 2:10 — How your best friend becomes a placeholder for your romantic partner 3:54 — The same thing happens at work (one paltry paycheck, five jobs) 5:31 — Linking back: this is why you felt 'needy' 6:03 — What it actually looks like to make someone your end-all be-all 7:30 — The stress it puts on them 8:29 — The nuclear family, capitalism, and the death of community 10:05 — Romeo and Juliet spoiler: they die 11:05 — Expand your circle, for them AND for you * * * * * #TheDailyDonna #RelationshipTherapy #BlackLove #YourPartnerIsNotYourEverything #DrDonnaOriowo