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You're Not Needy. You're Asking the Wrong Person. | The Daily Donna

Someone called you needy. Or maybe you've been carrying that word around like it's a fact. Today I am giving you my #1 tip for dealing with neediness — and I promise it's not what you think.  There's a difference between being a needy person and being a person with needs. And usually that difference comes down to one thing: who you're asking. In this episode of The Daily Donna, we're getting into why the bootstrapping mentality is a lie, what Maslow's hierarchy actually got wrong (and what the Blackfoot people knew first), why the person calling you needy might just be telling you about their own capacity, and what it actually looks like to have your needs met — without shame! Plus: Day 2 of the hypocritical therapist's rest challenge. Social rest check-in. We're keeping me accountable in these internet street! * * * * * Chapters to Check: 0:00 — Have you ever been told you're too needy? 0:40 — Rest check-in: Day 2 (social rest) 3:50 — The #1 tip to stop being needy 4:55 — Needy person vs. person with needs 6:00 — Micro, mezzo, macro: where did the label come from? 6:45 — Maslow, the Blackfoot inversion, and why you were never meant to do it alone 9:15 — Bootstrapping is a lie. Here's the receipts. 10:55 — For the people calling others needy: what you're really saying 13:55 — Ask someone else. Know your needs. Build your village. * * * * * Note: This episode connects directly to Drink Water and Mind Your Business : a Black woman's guide to unlearning the BS and healing self-esteem. Chapters 1-4 go deep on systems of power and who gets the honor of personhood. Link to grab your copy in bio or http://DrinkWaterBook.com * * * * * * * #TheDailyDonna #BlackMentalHealth #NeedyPerson #HavingNeeds #DrDonnaOriowo